Bp Girlfriend Wont Stop Cutting!!

I'm glad you are trying to help your girlfriend. She is lucky to have someone who cares. By cutting, there are many risks. She might get an infection, she may cut a vein and could even bleed to death if she cuts too deep!! She might misjudge the severity of the cut and the cut might require stiches.
Also cutting is like a drug- it is very addictive. Soon they cannot stop. Of course there are also emotional affects- suicidal thoguths, clinical depression. If she has bipolar she has to be extra careful to not cut when she is feeling to angry or depressed or she may do soemthing irreversible.
I'm sorry if this post sounds grim and scary but it is reality unfortunately.

Please take her to see adr. Her life is at risk and she deperately needs your help. Though she may be angry at first, leter when she is better she will thank you. Good luck to you and please post again on how she's doing.
Also is she taking any mediaction for her bipolar disorder? This may also help with the cutting issue.

Shes on a form of lithium and other anti depressents. She goes to a psychologist and psychiatrist and her school councler regularly, her parents also know about the cutting and so does her doctors, this is just a regular thing for her.


But ive told her a million times that she might cut to deep one time on accident and she is sure she wont. Other than that there really is no other reason not to stop according to her. I need soem actual physical side effects that can happen from cutting. I mean real medical scientific facts that can happen to you besides depression because that all comes w/ the bipolar thing.

If anyone knows a site where they could tell me things like this tell me. I mean does it make your amune system slow down? Does it cause loss of hair? What does it do physically? I need to tell her something bad that can happen from cutting besides she might cut deep. there has to be other things that can happen to you

and do not mention to me that it causes depression or suicide thoughts, that all comes from being bipolar too so I need to tell her what cutting can do to her besides 'maybe' and infection and 'she might' cut to deep

I am bipolar and I also used to cut. I still do occasionally, but I try not to. When I started, I never planned to stop. I didn't care about side effects such as infections or even death. When you are in that frame of mind, you can't think of anyhting except the relief you will get when that knife touches your skin. The thing that did make me stop, however, was seeing how much it hurt and destroyed my boyfriend. Though I cared nothing for myself, he was the world to me. Let her know how much you care for her and how much this is hurting you. Say it in a nonaccusatory way, or she will be put on the defensive. Just let her know that you will be there for her and it's ok. Other than that, I don't know what else to tell you.

My friend said that you should go to google.Com and enter "secret shame" once there go to the "friends and family" section. It is a forum for various links to a passel of ways to help. But above all remember that its all ultimately in her hands and its about her needing loving words and support.