Ok everyone listen up. I am so unbelievably sick and tired of coming onto the boards and reading this crap about who doesn't like this person and who doesn't like that person. This board is supposed to be here to support and offer advice to people not bicker and fight over petty stuff. If you all don't believe what someone is telling you then don't reply. Its plain and simple, hit the back button and read the next one. Most of you in here I love to death, but lately your positive attitudes, will to help others and kind character has started to slip. I understand that you are sick of people lying about who they are and what they do, but really when you are arguing so much that the true people who need help are being ignored, things have to change! Girls I respect each and everyone of you for your courage to defend others and help people, but personal attacks? I know you are all better than that! So what you think that dyingbaby and prettychick are the same, then ignore all messages from them! Its just like when ladythug was harassing me, and you all told me just to ignore her and that she would vanish, and she did! You all taught me something that day and now I think you all need to teach yourselves that very same thing! I hope that you all understand and aren't upset but it needed to be said!
I couldn't have said it any better than jess, this is really getting crazy, I mean I understand that some people have been lying and playing games, but what about those who truly do need our help? I know i've stopped coming to the boards as much because all that's posted is petty stuff. All of you girls are so genereous and kind hearted, so why waste your time on someone who doesnt deserve it? I hope we can get our "family" back to where it was, cause I miss the "old girls"!
I think that when I send people that are hated messages I am pretty positive and I remain in the state of trying to help that person. But that doesnt excuse it..I know where you are coming from and I think that everyone else in the room feels the same way. We all needed that "wakeup" call...Thanks once again jess!!
I guess I am the onle one that thinks that we havent' done anything wrong. People who come in here to be immature and cause rifts are the ones who are doing something wrong. For those of you who don't want to see what's written, don't click on those posts that you know have "argueing" in them...... I dunno. Just my opinion.
I agree with chanda and nikki. It's hard to not get upset when you try to help someone who you later find out is just making up stories. Like with prettychicky I talked to her and tried to help her before I found out everything was a lie. So it's really hard to not get upset and say something to them when you waste your valuable time on b.S. I know that it's frustrating to come on here and read hateful things but i'm not one to just sit back and not say anything when people like that come in and try to ruin what we have here. The mood swings that I have right now won't let me!!!
I think that I am basically stuck in the middle...I think that something needed to be said, but I dont think that everyone needed to jump on her...I personally think that I did a nice job on talking!! And I think that the rest of you ladies did aswell!! I am glad that we have cleared it all up and I thinkn that she has heard enough..Let wait and see what happens!!