Hi suzy,
I work with a lot of women who complain of the same problems as your mom. There are some great natural products that you will not find on the market, they are distributed solely throgh natural health practioners such as my self. There are a couple of products I have used myself as I went into menopause immediately after a car accident trauma.

It is called simplex f, it is used for hot flashes, harmonal imbalances, hypo/hyperthyroid and adrenal conditions, lack of sex drive, depression, and for maintaining endocrine balance. It contains protomorphogens, they are the cellular blueprints being constantly secreted by each cell. Dr. Royal lee discovered them many years ago. They can assist the body to rebuild organs and glands that become damaged or aged. With menopause we see a number of glands being deficient and we can assist the body to repair these organs. Typically this formula contains ovary, adrenal, pituatary and thyroid nucleoprotein-mineral extracts. This formula nourishes and stabilizes the endrocrine system. We carry specific formulas for each every organ. It costs 16.00 for 90 caps.

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