Joined: 28 Oct 2003 Posts: 11 Location: louisiana,westbank
What to Do Posted: 11-08-03 10:38am
Hi everyone, I have alot on my mind right
now. I really need some advice.Ok i've
been talking to this boy for about 3months
now and theres kind of an age issue but
not major he 18 and im 16 and im still in
school.Well when we first started talking
things were cool he use to call me before
he went to work,on his break,and when he
got off.Then one day I had a volleyball
game and called him before I played(which
I always do)but when I called his
babymomma answered his cellphone and we
kind of had an altercation and the next
day he told me that we shouldnt be
together because of our age and him not
seeing me as much.Days went by and he
called and ask why I wasnt calling him or
anything but why should I now I found out
that it's possible that I could be
pregnant for him.What should I do?
Another thing im starting to feel like all
he want from me is sex because we never
spend anytime together and when we do we
are usually spending it having sex or
something. Its like im good enough to
have sex with him but not to be with him
and I love him I really do and I want it
to work but im still so confused please
help.
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 11-08-03 14:22pm
Aw shone, i'm really sorry to hear you are
going through such an emotionally
difficult time. I will be straight with
you though, if this guys babys mother is
answering his cell phone, then he is
obviously still either having a
relationship with her, or they are very
close. That is why he is not treating
your relationship with any seriousness and
using you for sex. It is unfortunate, but
some guys want their permanent
relationship with their wives or
girlfriends aswell as have a few girls on
the side to. If this guy really cared
about you at all, he would not only be
having sex with you, but he would be
taking you out to dinner, the movies etc.
If he is not willing to cut all ties with
his babys mother, and commit to you, then
you shouldn't continue the relationship.
You deserve much better, there is a guy
out there who would love you and only you
and would devote most of his spare time to
your relationship. Don't accept anything
less. You are a person with real
feelings, and no one has the right to drag
your emotions through the mud just to feed
their own selfish desires.
Take care
suzy
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TX_momy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Posts: 119 Location: TX
Hey Girl..... Posted: 01-05-04 21:12pm
Just what should you do ? Hmmmm... You
know if you have unprotected sex you can
get pregnanty but thats the least worst
think that can happen, even if I hope you
are not ! Yess... It sounds that he just
came by for a booty call or so sence he
doesen't spend time with you and sence you
know he haves a baby-momma ???? What can
I say... + he is soo jung just like
you... I would not mess with hem, but do
take a pregancy test and if you are not
pregnant, wich I hope and pray, hope you
learn !
Belive me when you are that jung (16)
"love" comes and goes, you'l see in a few
years you will laugh about it
promisse, I dated this guy when I was a
teen and I thought I loved hem I
guess I did'n know than.... But I am
telling you if it's love it's forever and
you will see, you will remebmber this I
promisse .... Just take it easy and try
to stay out of hes way unless you are
pregnant, wich I really hope you are not .
promisse, I dated this guy when I was a
teen and I thought I loved hem