Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 43 Location: Pennsylvania
23 Weeks! Posted: 05-04-05 21:30pm
I know I haven't been here in a while so
here's a quick update:
i'm single now.....Father isn't ready for
this thing so i'm on my own. Mom is
supportive tho.
I'm 23 weeks and the baby is a perfect
size...But my mom thinks it's gonna be a
big baby....
We found out that it's a boy...Yay.....Say
hi to john-wesley!!
Thinking of dropping anthony as the middle
name
thinking of changing my maiden name now
that my father doesn't need to sign
permission anymore.
The paternal grandmother of the baby is
still on my case about stuff...Now
stalking me online for any proof that this
wasn't an accident or anything else that
could be chargable....Which there's
nothing so i'm not worried in the least.
Tho....I'm starting to worry about my
psoriasis....I know my kid has a chance of
getting it....But it's been handed down
through the male side of the family....So
am I only infected or does the kid have a
50/50 chance of getting it too?
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 05-04-05 22:19pm
Yay!! Congrats on making it to 23 weeks!!
:)
does it really matter if it was an
accident or planned? Either way, I don't
think it matters....
I'm not sure what psoriasis exactly is!
Sorry!!
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 05-04-05 22:20pm
Im not sure about psoriasas, but what is
this about the grandmother? What the hell
is her problem and what is she trying to
do?
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Sherry_Wine
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 43 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 05-04-05 23:18pm
Psoriasis is a skin condition....There is
an info thing about it somewhere on this
site that explanes what it is and
such...
But see....I'm 18 and her son is gonna be
17 soon......We didn't do anything
illegal.....But she swears that I did this
on purpose. She yelled at me for "giving
him responsibility when he hasn't had any
responsibility in his life". It's
like...Well who's fault is that? Hers!
She pampers him because she thinks she has
to and doesn't want to teach him how to
take care of himself. She smokes weed
around a 2-year-old and the only thing
anyone would do about it is put in a
report to child services and all they do
is make sure they're being physicaly taken
care of. She thinks it's ok for her to
lie but no one else and thinks I should be
in jail for lies....Which I haven't lied
to her about anything....No reason to. I
made a joke one time about holes in
condoms and she thinks that I really
actually did that to him and it's
like....How stupid do I have to be to get
pregnant on purpose when both of us still
have 2 years of highschool left and
neither of us are on our own or even have
a job??? No....Maybe 8 years down the
line I woulda done it.....But I would have
to the the dumbest person in the world to
do it on purpose right now. She's the
reason why the father and I aren't
together anymore.
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katie_33
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2005 Posts: 172
Re: 23 Weeks! Posted: 05-07-05 01:27am
sherry_wine
wrote:
i know I haven't been here
in a while so here's a quick update:
i'm single now.....Father isn't ready for
this thing so i'm on my own. Mom is
supportive tho.
I'm 23 weeks and the baby is a perfect
size...But my mom thinks it's gonna be a
big baby....
We found out that it's a boy...Yay.....Say
hi to john-wesley!!
Thinking of dropping anthony as the middle
name
thinking of changing my maiden name now
that my father doesn't need to sign
permission anymore.
The paternal grandmother of the baby is
still on my case about stuff...Now
stalking me online for any proof that this
wasn't an accident or anything else that
could be chargable....Which there's
nothing so i'm not worried in the least.
Tho....I'm starting to worry about my
psoriasis....I know my kid has a chance of
getting it....But it's been handed down
through the male side of the family....So
am I only infected or does the kid have a
50/50 chance of getting it
too?
so your 23 weeks thats
about the same as me i'm 20 weeks.. I'm
having a boy also.. So when was your last
period? Do you know when you concived?
What did your u/s measurements add up to
the date of your period or the date you
conived, mine added up to 4 days before my
last period which is kinda confusing but I
heard they add 2 weeks on to
everything.... But wow that grandma needs
to mind her buisness she jsut doesn't want
to let him go and grow up on his own but
she needs to realize it's not about her
anymore there's a baby involved. I'm sort
of in the same situation, except my b/f
finally stood up to his mom and told her
he loved her but she needed to back off
and let him live his life.. Finally he
said something to her... But then again
we've been together for 4 years off and
on... So hopefully yours will come
around, my bf mom still hasn't came around
or asked how my pregnancy is going but she
stopped trying to put stuff in his head
about me... I hope everything works out
for you and don't worry about her or him
if he can't stand up to her and realize he
needs to step up and be a man and a father
then you shouldn't worry about him his not
worth it.. Good luck
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Sherry_Wine
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 43 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 05-07-05 21:15pm
Lmao....I have no idea. I was on my
period during the thanksgiving
time...Definately on the day but I don't
know if I had started the day before or
two days before.....And I conceived maybe
on december 3rd or 4th I think. I don't
know which one I was measuring up to but
my last u/s was measuring a perfect 22
weeks...And that was almost 2 weeks ago so
maybe in a couple days i'll be exactly 24
weeks. My sister just got her ultrasound
yesterday, having a boy and is measuring
about 21.5 weeks.
Actually....She doesn't care about either
of her sons...She doesn't mind him being
the father....Her problem is with me, not
him. See...She hates liars...She thinks
that lies should be punishable by death
yet weed is ok because she smokes it 24/7.
I think she doesn't wanna realize she'll
be a grandmother and a mother of a 2 year
old and be 38 at the same time. The
father is only 16 years old....But she
yelled at me for giving him
responsibility....Haha....She never taught
him about responsibility and thinks it's
too late so she has to pamper him. All
he's allowed to do is stay in his room and
watch dvds and play video games and go to
school....That's it....No phone....No
friends....Nothing. He doesn't care
either...That's all he's known his entire
life. She never lets him get out and
live.
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katie_33
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2005 Posts: 172
Posted: 05-07-05 23:02pm
sherry_wine
wrote:
lmao....I have no idea. I
was on my period during the thanksgiving
time...Definately on the day but I don't
know if I had started the day before or
two days before.....And I conceived maybe
on december 3rd or 4th I think. I don't
know which one I was measuring up to but
my last u/s was measuring a perfect 22
weeks...And that was almost 2 weeks ago so
maybe in a couple days i'll be exactly 24
weeks. My sister just got her ultrasound
yesterday, having a boy and is measuring
about 21.5 weeks.
Actually....She doesn't care about either
of her sons...She doesn't mind him being
the father....Her problem is with me, not
him. See...She hates liars...She thinks
that lies should be punishable by death
yet weed is ok because she smokes it 24/7.
I think she doesn't wanna realize she'll
be a grandmother and a mother of a 2 year
old and be 38 at the same time. The
father is only 16 years old....But she
yelled at me for giving him
responsibility....Haha....She never taught
him about responsibility and thinks it's
too late so she has to pamper him. All
he's allowed to do is stay in his room and
watch dvds and play video games and go to
school....That's it....No phone....No
friends....Nothing. He doesn't care
either...That's all he's known his entire
life. She never lets him get out and
live.
yeah so your's also
when you count back lands on your or
around your period.. So how do they
determine the day we concived if the
measurements are futher back.... I think
they count back 2 weeks or so like for me
I measured at 19.5 weeks and that lands
around dec.14 and when I asked so when did
I concive she said any where from dec. 25
and jan 3... I just don't get why they
add those 2 weeks in there... But ne ways
thats sad I feel for you girl that woman
needs to get a life I understand her 16
year old son is going to be a father and
thats probally hard for her to understand,
but it's not your fault and no matter what
your's and her diffrences are she needs to
realize that there is a baby involed and
let her son make his own desicions... I
wish you all the luck and jsut don't go
around them and try and make them be there
let them come around on there own and if
the don't then thats there loss.... Good
luck and remeber there is plenty of men
out there and just cause you are going to
have a kid doesn't mean there not a chance
for you to find mr. Right... If you ever
need someone to talk to you. You can
always spill your guts to me...
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Sherry_Wine
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 43 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 05-07-05 23:10pm
Well they time your period....They ask how
long it lasts and how many days are
between each one...Because conception is
most likely 14 days before your next
period....And if you're on a regular
28-day cycle then it's 2 weeks before or
after...Just because it's the best time.
But the due date isn't the date you're
supposed to give birth on either...That is
also give or take a week or two because
it's any time after the 9th
month....During the 10th...Which is
between 38 and 42 weeks they say is a
normal pregnancy length....So really
everything is just educated guesses....The
baby comes when the baby comes.
The father wants to be involved....We're
not together anymore only because of
her...Not being together hurts us so we're
trying to be ok with it for now to save us
some pain but it's not working....We can't
stand it. He wants to be involved so
badly and the rest of his family is
supportive...It's just and only his mother
that has the problem.....He even
threatened suicide if she did this any
longer.....Of course she blamed it on me
and sent him to therapy and is trying to
find a way to make me pay for it.....Which
there's no way she can prove anything that
she thinks about me because it's all lies.
I just hope that once he's 18 that he'll
go against her anyway and come home to his
family....He agreed that once that happens
that his mother will no longer exist to
us....She'll have no rights to see the
baby......But after a while he changed his
mind...I think she takes him on guilt
trips and he's too stubborn to see the
truth......But I think once he's 18,
everything will be fine again.
