Hello, im new to the forums and have a
sersious question/sitiuation to ask. I
was having sex with my girlfriend tonight,
with a condom, we have done it a few times
and always before I ejaculate I always
pull out of her just to be more safe. But
tonight after I pulled out, I found that
my condom ripped and there was nothing
covering me anymore, so it all went on my
bed. We talked about it and are both
worrying alot, the condom was on and not
ripped for more than half of the time
becuase we pull out and check it,
established that earlier today I
masterbated, about 8 hours before me and
her were sexually active. And that she
just ended her period about 4-5 days ago..
Please help, whats the chances that
something happened, what can I do to find
out/prevent. Thanks
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 05-04-05 22:20pm
Well, there's always a risk of getting
pregnant....Condoms aren't 100 percent
effective all the time! Try not to worry
about it and if she misses a period, take
a test
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guenchie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 May 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 05-05-05 00:55am
Hard to wait that long....
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 05-05-05 03:52am
For arguement sake lets assume a normal
cycle of 28 days.
Sperm can live for up to 5 days and an eg
is viable for around 36 hours after
release.
In a normal 28 day cycle ovulation occurs
around day 14 (14 days before the period)
so from 5 days before that (day 9) to 36
hours after (day 15/16) is the fertile
window.
Knowing her period was 4/5 days ago
doesn't help you need the start date
because day one is always the first day of
the period but the period could last 3
days or could last 7 days.
And you see 4/5 days from day 3
(reasonably safe) to 4/5 days from day 7
(not safe) yeah?
Pre-cum can contain millons of sperm,
sperm are made on demand, it has nothing
to do with if you masturbated or not (and
nothing to do with whether you pee'd or
not either)
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guenchie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 May 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 05-05-05 06:19am
We tried to figure out the whole timesake
of her period, and it was confusing. Her
periods are about 7-14 days long, she
loses too much blood do to an ulcer and an
early age. Don't ask me why or how, but
she tells me they last up to almost 2
weeks sometimes, and she said it was close
to two weeks, I don't know if that helps,
lets say two weeks, 14 days, then 4-5 days
after that maybe 19 days after day 1, does
that help? And my pre-ejaculation I think
was before we started having sex, unless
there are more than one stage of it.
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 05-05-05 07:45am
Pre cum is pretty much present all the
time during arousal.
If your girlfriend has unusual periods it
makes things much more difficult to work
out.
But day one is always the first day of
period (bleeding) so if she knows how many
days from day one until the next day one
(28 is average, mine is 26 days, some
people have 35 days, whatever is normal
for your girlfriend)
then take 14 off that number as a rough
guide to ovulation. The fertile window is
from 5 days before until 2 days after.
So if she had 35 days from starting
bleeding on one period until she started
bleeding on her next period ovulation
would be approx day 21 (35-14) and fertile
from 5 days before (16) until 2 after (23)
- this is just an example
