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Q: Unable to Sustain An Erection

asked by: steeler_fan123456 on May 3rd, 2005

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Hey guys,

i am 20 years old and have never had sex before. I have been with my girlfriend for a while now and we still have not had sex. We both want to have sex but I am unable to sustain an erection in bed. I masturbate once every few days without any real problem. Also, she gives me oral at which time I am usually pretty hard. I am really worried about this issue and feel really embarrassed whenever we try to have sex. I know that a few of you guys are experiencing the same issues and I was hoping someone has some feedback for me. I am not sure if I should be looking into taking pills or something or if this is a mental issue.

To answer a few questions,
i drink but do not do any drugs.
I masturbate once every few days.
I do look at porn and usually masturbate to it.

I appreciate all of your comments!

Replies(5)

RishiRishi

replied on March 30th, 2008

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this can be a very frutstrating problem......

the only way to find out if you have a physical cause or a psyco cause is....get this test done, it's called Doppler Ultrasound......it will tell you if you have any venous leakage in your penis....because of which you don't sustain the erection long enough and probably don't even have rock hard erections.....if this test comes ok, then it might be some other cause like diabetes or hypertension or homones.....if all of this is ok, then it's all in your head!!~!

HornyInsomniac

replied on July 11th, 2008

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premature ejaculation is fairly common, especially in young and/or sexually inexperienced guys. sometimes it can be cured with counseling, sometimes its just plan nervousness, and sometimes it is (unfortunately) persistent. i would know, because my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half, and he has always been like that. sucks for me, but i love him the same.

gregggwatson

replied on July 13th, 2008

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I think thats all in your head, and in the time you will get better, butt if you are so worried you can always take some pills...
I sugest based on natural ingredients because they are risk free...
And remember all we have our good and bad periods.................
Have a nice day.........

newtoit

replied on September 4th, 2008

New User

Unable to Sustain An Erection

What r the natural fruits/food one can eat to be sexually active?

Thanks

alaskawilliams

replied on September 6th, 2008

New User

Not to worry all you need to do to find out is to have sex. Use a condom a few times first then when you are ready go bare skin.
Yes you will ejaculate at a fast rate but in time it will even out and all will be fine.
Don't think about the what if's or what might happen.
You will be able to control yourself as time goes by. Good luck.
Chow -

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