it is pretty much the same
here as I said before, free housing, free
utilities, free food and they eat better
than most of us, I sure do not like to get
behind someone in a line on the food card
@ the grocery store, they have steaks,
prime rib, cookies, ice cream, all the
expensive stuff that we cannot afford,
heck, I would be embarrased, and they act
so proud, plus they get a check every
month, the more kids, more money, it is
really sad, something needs to be done, I
love to see them cut off when they break
the rules and get caught.
Sincerely,
sandy.
.
It was like that over here for years,if
you wanted a house get pregnant if you
want money get pregnant,and most of the
kids were being brought up by
grandparents,finally things are starting
to change,more education and less
benefits,more emphasis on family
helping.This has caused this to slow
down,no housing,no special benefits so
then it isn't worth it,also changing the
welfare benefit structure to help single
parents off benefits and into work,with
penalties if they believe that they are
not doing enough to help themselves,this
has changed how some people look at
life.There are even laws now protecting
parents and forcing employers to provide
creche facilitys and even top ups off the
goverment for childcare,so a lot less
think that getting pregnant is going to
give them an easy ride.It is hard to
balance the genuine need for help and the
need to dissuade people of the idea that
it will all be easy from then on.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-01-05 10:26am
Hey blue!!!
Maybe canada will take some heads up from
the uk. Lol well maybe cnada will but
quebec always has to be different from the
rest of the country-damn the govt!
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foreverblue
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005 Posts: 577
Posted: 06-01-05 12:39pm
lil_blaze2004
wrote:
hey blue!!!
Maybe canada will take some heads up from
the uk. Lol well maybe cnada will but
quebec always has to be different from the
rest of the country-damn the
govt!
.
Sometimes you have to be tough and there
were loads of problems at first but it
settled down now.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 06-01-05 19:28pm
Believe me, the u.S.Of a needs to wake up
to, especially with the welfare fraud
situation, they should make these people
pay back what they owe and stop half of
this free stuff baloney. I have told
them this soooo many times, they make it
tooo easy and those that really need it
for a short time cannot get it.
Sincerely,
sandy
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-01-05 20:40pm
I find govt systems are f-ed up
everywhere. A lot of times it's the good
hardworking people that get screwed over.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3716
Posted: 06-03-05 18:05pm
Yes, I agree that all gov'ts are f-ed up
in one way or another. The free food,
free money, free rent, free utilities,
free clothes, free car, free etc. Etc.
Stuff has really got to go though.
It is the people who work who get screwed
because we pay for those who sit on their
fat butts and do nothing but eat and
breed. No offense whatsoever to those
who have babies and are getting some kind
of assistance because they actually need
it.
I just don't know anyone like that!
Everyone I have ever met who got
assistance didn't need it, they just chose
to take the "easy" way out.
Another thing that really bites my butt is
that if you are too fat then the
government will pay for you to get gastric
bypass surgery. what? My boobs are too
big, but no one is paying to get them
shrunk! Maybe if I was 100 pounds or 2
more than they would pay to make me
skinny!
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-03-05 22:33pm
hotasfrick
wrote:
yes, I agree that all gov'ts
are f-ed up in one way or another. The
free food, free money, free rent, free
utilities, free clothes, free car, free
etc. Etc. Stuff has really got to go
though.
It is the people who work who get screwed
because we pay for those who sit on their
fat butts and do nothing but eat and
breed. No offense whatsoever to those
who have babies and are getting some kind
of assistance because they actually need
it.
I just don't know anyone like that!
Everyone I have ever met who got
assistance didn't need it, they just chose
to take the "easy" way out.
Another thing that really bites my butt is
that if you are too fat then the
government will pay for you to get gastric
bypass surgery. what? My boobs are
too big, but no one is paying to get them
shrunk! Maybe if I was 100 pounds or 2
more than they would pay to make me
skinny!
here they pay for a breast reduction if it
is causing health/back probs!
But not augmentation(i looked into it-lol)
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kirsty21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2005 Posts: 1 Location: uk
I Am Scared Posted: 06-11-05 17:17pm
I am 22 student who has just found out I
am 7 weeks, I could have been sick when I
found out on my birthday. I am not with
the father, I have no money, no were to
live and I am in the middle of my degree.
I am having that pill not sure what its
called anyway I alway said that no matter
what I would never get rid of an unborn
child but untill u r were I am u will
never know your true feelings about
abortion. I am scared about how I am
going to feel after it
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steen
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Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 06-11-05 17:57pm
There is nothing wrong in taking the pill
for unwanted pregnancy. But if you are
worried about how you are going to feel,
you probably should get counseling before
you do so. Not to mention that you
lilely then need counseling afterwards as
well.
The problem with getting the pill for
pregnancy termination is that you will not
get the same amount of counseling as you
would get before a surgical abortion, so
you need to be sure that this is set up on
your own.
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mom2trevor
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Dec 2004 Posts: 694 Location: VA
Re: I Am Scared Posted: 06-11-05 18:30pm
kirsty21
wrote:
i am 22 student who has just
found out I am 7 weeks, I could have been
sick when I found out on my birthday. I
am not with the father, I have no money,
no were to live and I am in the middle of
my degree. I am having that pill not
sure what its called anyway I alway said
that no matter what I would never get rid
of an unborn child but untill u r were I
am u will never know your true feelings
about abortion. I am scared about how I
am going to feel after
it
you should probably take this too the
support forum. This is for abortion
debates. I have had an unplanned
pregnancy so I know what I would do
because I have an almost 2 year old son.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 06-11-05 21:23pm
Just make sure you are doing what is right
@ the time!
Sincerely,
sandy
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sandyallen
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Posted: 06-11-05 21:39pm
I know of someone that had a gastric
by-pass about 6 years ago and she is close
to being almost 300# today, one of these
so called "disabled"(actually lazy), she
even talked her dr into putting a feeding
tube into her and she eats both with the
tube and orally and the state supports her
every whim, heck, all she needs is a psych
to tell her to get off of her dead arse.
Please, don't get me wrong, I am not
trying to judge, I just do not like liars
and lazy people!
Sincerely,
sandy
