At 5'9" and 135lbs I don't believe you need to lose any weight. However, if you're planning on being a model you obviously have a different standard to fit into.
I suppose the first thing you need to tweak is your diet. Rather than eating 3 meals a day, eat 6 small meals a day to keep your metabolism up and running. Try including more lean meats, vegetables and and whole grains into your diet.
Tuna, ground turkey, chicken, egg whites, ostrich, bison, cottage cheese for protein. Old fashion oats, whole wheat bread, a wide variety of vegetables for grains and carbohydrates. You're already doing real good with the healthy fats. I would recommend using a supplment called udo's oil which you can get online. It's an oil blend that contains the proper ratio of poly and mono fats. *remember not to cook with these fats because they were breakdown into saturdated fats.*
as far as fruit is concerned, I would never suggest cutting them completely. But you might want to limit them. Fruit does contain sugar and that could hinder your progress. Also get rid of the v8, that stuff contains a lot of sodium and tends to make people bloated. Eat real vegetables instead.
Mix up your diet, don't just eat the same things everyday. You'll get bored with your diet and not get the nutrients you need. Also, if you work out and don't eat enough food, your body will respond by holding onto the little fat it has left.
I would also recommend switching up your cardio and weightlifting days. Lift one day and do cardio the next. Make your cardio really count by making it short and intense. Try something called h.I.I.T high intensity interval training. Also, give free weights a chance and don't be afraid to lift heavier weights at lower reps. (within reason of course!)
you will not become a big, muscular freak because women simply do not have the testosterone to get remotely anywhere near that.
Have you ever had your bf% tested? I would pay more attention to this number than to your actual weight. Some of that weight might be muscle, and muscle weighs more than fat. So the scale can sometimes be misleading. Also, because you're so tall you're going to be naturally heavier than girls who are 5'4" or 5'2". So don't let the numbers frustrate you.