Well if you dont wanna lose your baby maybe you should file for full custody then that way u can allow him to see the baby on your terms and he would have to abide by your rules..My cuzin went through the same thing, only he let his ex g/f see the baby and she took him to michigan and my cuzin couldnt do a thing about it,,so he filed for custody of his son and he got him, now his babys mother can only visit with the baby on my cuzins terms.


If u still want to have joint custody call the courts and ask them the same question you asked here..They should be able to help you.