Hi all,
i couldn't believe it when I found this forum... I have had this problem since I was 16/17 and I am now 21 years of age. It's nice to be able to hear so many people have the same problem.
I noticed in 1hour classes that I couldn't last and used to sneak bits of chocolate every 10mins to keep my stomach quiet. I could never sleep at my friends' houses without getting up and saying "i'm not tired" when in reality I was so tired i'd fall asleep anywhere!
Cinemas were also a nightmare, I had to check out how long a movie would last before deciding whether to wait for it to come out on dvd! And if I did go to see one, i'd stuff my face beforehand.
Work was awful too, I could never stand training sessions and tried to find jobs where I wouldn't need to go to training and I even turned down a managerial position because of my problem. (the managers meetings are 3 hours long!) even 20mins training sessions I couldn't last in. Again, like the above people have mentioned, anxiety plays a huge part. Knowing how I feel in small quiet rooms with few people I start to panic and that brings on the feeling of rumbles and then I make a million excuses to leave the room.
I changed my job so I didn't have to go to training sessions and other reasons to a job which meant sittingin a very quiet room! So far I have kept the noises down eating fruit and early dinners. But what happens when they want to send me away training? :(
i didn't go to uni because I dropped out of college because of this problem. I still cannot go to college because I can't bear the thought of sitting in quiet classrooms and exam halls. My dreams of doing certain subjects have gone down the drain and I have no ambition or confidence.
I can't stay over at my other half's because I wake up within 2 hours and I can feel my stomach is about to explode and rumble out loud like crazy. I make excuses to leave at ridiculous times of the night.
My brother always comments and says, I heard your stomach! That's loud! And I don't mind when i'm around him, just other people. But the rumbles and growls are so loud, they're incredibly embarrassing and I find myself trying to eat more to compensate my stomach.
I have in turn put on a lot of weight in the past year which upsets me because I try to eat less now but with the stomach noises and my job, I have to eat more to keep my stomach full!
I will try the yogurt and I will also try to keep healthy but cutting out bread/dairy and wheat is going to be hard. They form a big part of my diet because they're easy to eat on the go.
If anyone does ever find a 'cure' please let me know! It is destroying my life, I have to keep busy in noisy areas, my stomach stays silent then. In quiet places, it's as loud as the guys outside digging up the road!!!
Thanks for all your posts and sharing your experiences! Apologies for going on for so long but I was so shocked to read all these!!!
Best regards,
scaredlilgirl