I am curious to know your preference??? Since I am female.

I prefer flat but it really doesn't make much difference

More replies please and thanks.....And feel free to post any of your thoughts on performing oral on a girl....Ive never had this done before but am curious....I dont know if my 'down there' is desireable ...Thats all....Thanks!....

:lol: is this a wind up?!!! :d

Hi!!!!

Well, maybe its just me, but if a man really loves a woman, the size of your labia will never matter.

Now if I didnt love the woman and it was all about just the sex, then I might like the full, large labia. Some women like for the man to gently pull on the labia and massage them. But as I understand it, the majority of the sexual gratification comes from stimulation to the clitois, not the labia. I should also mention, that I knew a woman once that had a very flat 'vagina', was shaved and very smooth and she was hot hot hot!!! I never a knew a woman so turned on by just rubbing on her labia.

So in conclusion, sex and your lovelife is what you make it....A man will be very happy with you as long as each person totally gives themselves to each other during sex.

I am a girl, so I obviously have no preference info to offer, but I just wanted to say something. I agree with the above post. If you are with someone who loves and cares for you then it doesn't matter. And there is no sense in finding out that most guys like flat lips when yours are large, or vice versa because that is just going to make you feel crappy for no darn reason. I mean, go ahead and get opinions and stuff, i'm not trying to be mean, but don't stress over such little things. Be happy with what you have and find someone who loves you and every little thing about you!

Any other thoughts ppl. I know that the guy should love you for who you are and if you feel comfortable about yourself. But I just want a straight divide on flat or full/meaty and why. Thanks

I have a girl i'm very much in love with and it really doesn't matter. However, my personal preference is lush/full/firm, but not nessesarily "meaty," though I guess it depends on ur definition of meaty. Mine would be to where it "sag." i've not been with many girls, though high quality pornography has been a larger part of giving me this insight.

I classify femles into three types:

innies: labia doesn't protrue and the lips are small.

Middle: 1cm of protrusion for the labia and lips.

Flaps: more than 1cm, hanging, real flappy, etc.

I prefer the middle. I like to be able to play with the lips and love the look of them "grabbing" my dick when I pull back.

I too don't care what size they are, but it is nice to have a whole bunch of skin to suck on while doing oral on her. It gives a guy's tongue a break when he can suck instead of lick. But the # 1 concern is what she wants. So i'll do what pleases her most. If yours is large, do you prefer it to be sucked on or not? Either way, let your lover know, i'm sure he;ll be happy to oblige!

Any other thoughts guys??

I prefer the ones attached to a kind sensitve woman with a great sense of humour.

i liked owlhunters answer haha

haha I just thought of a "Borat" quote and i have to post it as it somewhat relates to this
"my wifes vagin hang like sleeve of wizard" hahaha...so apparently we know his preferences anyone else seen that movie? hahaha hilarious
anyway..i'm a girl so no preference

Awesome post.



My soldier doesn't really care about the looks of it, but for my own, erm, insight, I really don't like hanging lips. Never killed me but I'd rather have less oral than to deal with lips trying to eat me (while it's the other way round).


Also, I hate hair.
I. Hate. Hair.

I don't know what's wrong with them, I just hate them.

Sure if you're in love, doesn't matter and all... But I hate hair.

Well, being a woman, I find this discussion humorous...

First of all, when you use the term "meat," I like to think of steak. My preference is a nice strip, but anyway... I look at it like this...

Would I rather eat a flat boring steak, or a nice chunk of meat, cooked to my taste?

And hair IS gross....
I prefer hardwood floors over carpet any day!

As a girl I would have to say that I really love a man doing oral on me. I have a little meat (what a awful term) but not much of a hang, although I have a lot of hair on my pubes - many guys have referred to my red hairy vaginal area as the fiery forest. I think that a guy has to be able to seek out and find the clitoris and be able to lick and suck on it to provide proper stimulation. This has always gotten me off and further imspired me to reciprocate (which I do very well).
Wendy

Just to add to my previous post. What about penises? Is foreskin an issue when a girl is sucking or not? I have found that it can get in the way when the penis is soft and I start sucking, but, of course, once the penis is hard the foreskin has drawn back and I can proceed to do the job. The major issue I have is that the guy must maintain cleanliness because a lot of germs can collect inside the "turtleneck".
Wendy

great post and a great reply, i m fully agree with ur opinion.