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volcano
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Is It Weird That I Have Never Had a Girlfriend?
Posted: 04-22-05 23:41pm
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I am already 18 years old,but I have never
had a girlfriend yet.I don't know the
accurate reason.And I wonder whether I am
normal or not.
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chibichan0307
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Posted: 06-20-05 22:32pm
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It's not wierd at all. I was 18 when I
got my first boyfriend, and that was only
cause I went off to college and got to
start over. Just because you don't start
dating when you're 13 doesn't mean you're
not normal. Some people just don't jump
into relationships just to have them. I
think I was a lot better not to date in
high school and it saved me from a lot of
drama that me friends went through. And
the older you get the more mature you and
your potiental mates become. Hope that
helps! And don't worry about it! :wink:
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zijing87
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Posted: 06-21-05 08:49am
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Its not at all... People start dating at
different ages... Im 17, going 18 and I
am a female, and im not into dating...
But u r perfectly normal! Dun worry... U
will b dating in the future! =d!
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Staylor
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Not At All ...
Posted: 06-25-05 18:55pm
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My boyfriend was 21 when we started dating
and he lost his virginity to me at 22...
There is absolutely nothing wrong with
him. So no there is nothing wrong with
you.
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Justin_Toronto
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Posted: 06-27-05 12:40pm
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Nah, it's normal.
I know when you look out into the world it
seems like everyone, all your friend, are
in relationships.
Take a step back and look around you
again... You'll see, most people your age
are actually single.
Justin
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volcano
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Location: shanghai,china
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Weight Problem
Posted: 07-01-05 07:59am
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Actually I have another problem is that I
am overweight,6 feet but 196bls already.
Will the weight problem become a curcial
factor that leads my dating failure.
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Staylor
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You Got to Be Kidding
Posted: 07-08-05 16:31pm
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Ummm my last bf was over about 6'3'' and
he was over 300lbs. I find myself as an
attractive girl alot of guys think I am
pretty and that did not stop me. Its all
about what is inside I know your thinking
ya right but for real!
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ravenightmares
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Re: Is It Weird That I Have Never Had a Girlfriend?
Posted: 08-03-05 19:22pm
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| volcano
wrote: | | i am already 18 years
old,but I have never had a girlfriend
yet.I don't know the accurate reason.And I
wonder whether I am normal or
not. |
your notso weird, im 20 I havnt really had
a boyfriend,just one I met on the net at
18 it lasted 2monthes
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volcano
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Re: Is It Weird That I Have Never Had a Girlfriend?
Posted: 08-04-05 10:42am
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| ravenightmares
wrote: | | volcano
wrote: | | i am already 18 years
old,but I have never had a girlfriend
yet.I don't know the accurate reason.And I
wonder whether I am normal or
not. |
your notso weird, im 20 I havnt really had
a boyfriend,just one I met on the net at
18 it lasted
2monthes |
thanks!
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volcano
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Re: You Got to Be Kidding
Posted: 08-04-05 10:50am
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| staylor
wrote: | | ummm my last bf was over
about 6'3'' and he was over 300lbs. I
find myself as an attractive girl alot of
guys think I am pretty and that did not
stop me. Its all about what is inside I
know your thinking ya right but for
real! |
haha,it seems that I am still a little
shorter.Yes,you are right, weight is not
everything.
Thank you.
Anyway,i will go on trying to lose weight.
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volcano
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Posted: 08-04-05 10:52am
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| justin_toronto
wrote: | nah, it's normal.
I know when you look out into the world it
seems like everyone, all your friend, are
in relationships.
Take a step back and look around you
again... You'll see, most people your
age are actually single.
Justin |
yes,i agree with you. The others affects
on me but I don't have to care about it
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SweetroseAngelbud
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Posted: 08-06-05 20:04pm
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Your aboustely normal hun,there are many
girls and guys today that don't haven't
had a girlfriend or a boyfriend yet,one
day you'll meet that girlfriend that
you've never had,and hopefully she'll care
about whats inside and outside of you and
also will accepte you for who you are and
understand that you've never had a
girlfriend,but don't worry there will be
girls coming around it just takes time
sometimes for girls that you want to have
also girls feel the same way they've never
had a boyfriend and they ask if there
normal or not yes your normal but it just
takes time,best wishes to you
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midwest
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Post Picture
Posted: 08-06-05 21:37pm
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Post up a picture of what you look like...
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Toiles
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Joined: 23 Jul 2005
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Location: Regina Saskatchewan
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Posted: 08-06-05 21:47pm
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Dont worry what you look like man. It
doesnt matter how you look. This may
sound harsh but I have seen some but ugly
guys in my day with some very beautiful
women. Dont worry. Just be confident go
to some parties and talk to girls, be very
nice to them. And ask if they want to do
something. Most will say yes, because
after all hangin out with a girl isnt
asking them out or marrying them lol.
Then after a w hile see where the
relationship goes.
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volcano
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Re: Post Picture
Posted: 08-07-05 01:00am
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| midwest
wrote: | | post up a picture of what
you look
like... |
lol,i don't mind showing you guys my
picture. But how can I post? Can picture
be posted in this forum?
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damien123
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Normal
Posted: 08-08-05 15:28pm
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I think you're normal - just think of
someone like me who's 23 and never had a
girlfriend but everyone acts like I should
have a girlfriend - I don't know - but
anyway you're definately normal matey.
Take care.
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aphidangel
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Location: VA
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Posted: 08-08-05 15:44pm
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I think you're perfectly normal...I myself
was one of those people involved with the
drama of high school dating, but I have
many friends who are completely awesome
who have never had a girlfriend or
boyfriend, and some are even older than
you. I think everything happens in its
own time. Don't rush anything because
that's what "everyone else" is doing, if
it's meant to happen it will.
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madhornet
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Location: Hertfordshire, England
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Posted: 08-09-05 16:02pm
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Well i've never had a girlfriend and i'm
turning 29 in september. I've gone
through all manner of reasons why in my
head and can't work out why. I wash every
day so it's not body odour, I have a
fairly varied amount of interests and I
have what i've been told is a good
personality and sense of humour.
My thinking is i'm either not good looking
enough, a bit too shy or too nice/been
brought up as too much of a gentlemen (not
in an annoying obtrusive way just a polite
way) or a combination of all of these
things.
Anyway i've given up on finding a
girlfriend - no point when it's never
going to happen I guess. :cry:
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