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Q: How Do I Know If I Lost My Virginity, Im Really Scared.

asked by: LadyThug916 on April 22nd, 2005

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My boyfriend was fingerin me or what eva and I am only used to 1 finger, and I know he put more then one finger and did it really ruff so im thinkin that he put to many in and just tore the hyme thing but aint lost my virginity, but im bleedin a lil bit, and im kinda walkin funny, and I went to go to the bathroom and it hurt to much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It burned. Im so scared. Im only 14 years old 15 in june!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what I cant be loosin my virginity at 14 years old. Thats hoey -ass caca!!- and this was definitly not the way I wanted to loose my virginity you know hell nah definitly not. Im really scared. I wanted to be the only one thats a really virgin at 18 you know I wanted to be that realllllllllllll controled chic. Im scared. Dear jesus.

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bkdaniels

replied on April 22nd, 2005

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How Do I Know If I Lost My Virginity, Im Really Scared.

Hey ladythug916, how are you doing?

The standard definition of virginity lets you get away with having a lot of different kinds of sex was still being able to call yourself a virgin. Someone who has oral sex, for example, regularly is also still a virgin.

Best wishes,

Jocelyne

replied on April 23rd, 2005

Experienced User

Just because your hymen broke doesn't mean anything many girls ahve there hymen broke long before anything sexual. Most people define losing your virginity when you have actual intercourse with a penis but I guess thats all up to you.

TheQueenB

replied on April 29th, 2005

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Yes I agree with the above.You could break you hymen just by simply exerciseing.So dont sweat it.

the one

replied on April 29th, 2005

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My hymen broke accidently when I was 10 when I was doing karate. You still a virgin until you have intercourse.

paradise_287

replied on May 2nd, 2005

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Is Getting Fingered the Same As Losing Your Virginity?

Ppl have different diffintions of wat it means to lose your virginity. I personally think you lose it when a guy sticks any body part of his into your viginal area, but that's just me! It mainly depends on wat u think losing your virginity means. And the hemen thing, dont sweat. You can lose it while riding a bike, running, exercising. It's ok, having ur hemen broken is nothin more than just having ur hemen broken.

Everything is gonna be ok, stop worrying so much, take a deep breath and relax. It's w/e u think is losing ur v-card, ok? It'll be ok. Hope I helped and everything goes ok

jillybob

replied on February 2nd, 2009

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I dont know if i'm still a virgin

ok well i have a question. i dont know if i'm a virgin. my bf stuck his penis in my vagina, i dont know if it was half way or all the way i couldnt tell; went in and out about 4 or 5 times and i told him to stop and he did. no bleeding, didnt hurt, (my hymen has been broken since i started riding horses several years ago) I am 18 and still a virgin, but i dont know if this one counts. neither of us went at it long enough to orgasm or anything, and he even told me he was about all the way in once, and my thighs were kinda sore the next day. but i am so confused. please help!

jillybob

replied on February 2nd, 2009

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i don't know if I'm still a virgin

unnamedny

replied on February 2nd, 2009

Experienced User

If you are going to wait until 18 for your first sexual experience, there is a huge chance that you'll feel like any other girl losing virginity. My girlfriend bleed for the first 5 times, it even scared me.

Fingers and penis is are different, you'll feel like a girl losing your virginity in the future.

rachele101

replied on February 2nd, 2009

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I would say you lose your virginity when a guy inserts his penis into you. thats my opinion on it.

sgt_pratt

replied on July 21st, 2009

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Re: How Do I Know If I Lost My Virginity, Im Really Scared.

..i do have the same experience with my bf,it happened to me when i was 10 years old,i wasn't menstruating at that time then..but we never meant to do it,it's due to our childhood acts.We really had a sexual intercourse but i don't know if i am still virgin.I didn't feel the pain,nor i was bleeding and that's what bothers to me so much.My question is,am i still virgin?i was really worried and scared,please help me solve this thing.I AM now 18 years old.hope to hear from all of you here.Thank you!

W0LF

replied on July 21st, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Girls you're being wayy to obsessive about defining virginity. If you've had penetrative sex with a male, with his penis, his finger or his toes, You're not a virgin any more. You have no new responsibilities and no new social attributes. When you wake up tomorrow the only thing that will change is the name of the day.

robbiesworld

replied on November 21st, 2009

New User

I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM I HAD SEX WITH MY BF 2 TIMES I DIDNT HURT NOR DID I BLEED. BUT ACTUALLY WHAT I FOUND OUT IS THAT YOUR HYMEN CAN BE DEEPER THAN OTHERS. WE HAD SEX FOR THE THRIRD TIME AND THE STROKES WERE DEEPER AND THATS WHEN IT HAPPENED HE BROKE MY HYMEN.

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