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Q: Big & Gay

asked by: max009 on April 21st, 2005

New User

I am new here... Maybe someone can help me with my thoughts. I am 30 gay and I have weight problems. A friend told me that being in a relationship with someone who accepts me for who I am would help me to change my eating habbits. But how can I be with a guy if I am ashamed of my body? She thinks that being loved by a nice guy would make everything possible. Am I naive or are there gay men who really care more for the personality and would support in losing weight?

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atusas

replied on October 21st, 2008

Experienced User

chat time

looking for some personal chat with men around 50. feel free to email me

JYoungBear

replied on October 21st, 2008

Experienced User

Re: Big & Gay

max009 wrote:

There are guys out there that can look past a physique. It does take time to find that right person to connect with.

Don't feel bad about your body! However, if you feel that you need to make a change with something, do it for yourself, and noone else. Whomever looks solely at someone for physique, or perhaps looks right away to spot imperfections on someone is truly shallow IMO.

Welcome to the board! Smile

Users who thank JYoungBear for this post: homerx

homerx

replied on October 21st, 2008

Moderator

If U R happy with your weight then find a man who likes big men...there are lots of them out there and J is right..."Whomever looks solely at someone for physique, or perhaps looks right away to spot imperfections on someone is truly shallow"
...after all, we are all gonna get older and balder and fatter or skinnier and if someone is with you for looks alone then unhappiness is all that can come from that because we are all changing...

JYoungBear

replied on October 23rd, 2008

Experienced User

homerx wrote:

Exactly!

We're not all perfect, we're only human. We should be able to accept our bodies for what they are.

Users who thank JYoungBear for this post: homerx

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