Hi there,
well I can tell you from experience just what its like. I am currently 25 and have been called every name in the book. I did it because my ears were predominatly large and I was tired of seeing myself in pictures plus im getting married soon and wanted to have some nice pictures without the dreadful ears. I went for a consultation about a month ago, the surgery was in the ballpark for around 5,000 I ended up actually only paying 3,500 because I refered two people to the surgeon and I payed in full. Basically the surgery is pretty easy depending on your ears, for me they had to pin the ears back but also shave down the ridges in the inside of the ear. I was under general anthesia for about a couple hours. You have to wear a bandage for the first 4 days. Then they take the bandage off. I took mine off after the four days and they say you have to wear sweatbands for 4 to 6 weeks, or until the swelling goes down. I purchased the female version of the sweatbands they are thinner than male sweatbands, plus you only have to wear them at night, so who cares, its to prevent you from rolling on your ears. Also if your not yet used to sleeping on your back and elevated get used to it, because for a month you can not lay on your ears, you will ruin the work your doctor did on them... Im in my 2nd week and the swelling still hasnt gone done, also you have to watch for infections. I developed one in my left ear, not pretty, I thought it might be a staff infection but the surgeon assures me it isnt. I am on antibiotics though so I am expecting that should clear up soon. Also my ears are still very numb as they are still swollen. Other than that im pretty happy I did the surgery, it will be well worth it once the swelling goes down and will definitly boost confidence.
On a side note make sure when you go the consultation to look at plenty of before and after photos and do your own research. Go to more than one surgeon if you can.
Good luck...Any other specific questions feel free to ask. :d
also on a 2nd side note....My doctor told me I couldnt workout for a month or play sports of any kind, im not sure why. I guess you could injure yourself while doing shoulder presses or something...