i just got back from my doctor today.
i'm getting my rods removed (along with the screws and other hardware)
hopefully it will stop most, if not all, of the pain.
i had hardware in my ankle before and i had pain from that so they removed the hardware. my ankle felt SO much better afterwards.
as far as your doc not seeing you since he's a children's doctor...i am 20 and i'm still going to the childrens hospital of philadelphia...i'm pretty sure there is some sort of deal that your surgeon who did your surgery can possibly do to keep you as his/her patient since they did the initial surgery.
i wouldn't want someone taking out what someone else put in, simply because surgery is like being a craftsman...each surgeon has their own way of doing things and only he will know the work that he's done better than any other person. (am i making any sense?)
i suggest going to your surgeon at the childrens hospital and just telling him how you really would like him to be the one to do the surgery. he may make you exhaust all possibilities like my surgeon did. (ie: a few different physical therapist [since physical therapists have different methods for treating things], pain management, spine doctors, and so on)
i'm getting my surgery on may 19th. i could keep you updated afterwards and let you know if i get any relief.
oh! and my surgeon told me that getting the hardware out isnt half as bad as the initial operation of getting them in. THANK GOD!!