Joined: 14 Mar 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Seattle, WA
I Need Help Fast. Posted: 04-13-05 19:41pm
I need help the other night when me and my
fiance had sex it was great. I mean I
enjoyed myself and so did he. Well
afterwards we always tend to play around
and he tried to finger me and it hurt. I
mean it hurt so bad I yelped. I never
yelp and he was sorry. He was afraid to
touch me after that I need some help why
did it hurt so bad. Thanks for any
replies or any thoughts you might have but
please help me.
I have been in this exact same position
before! I had sex with my partner and
afterward he tried to finger me but it
hurt, and I mean really hurt. I
discovered that there was slight swelling
painful to touch down there, not sure what
caused this, perhaps he had been too rough
with his hands in foreplay?
This does'nt happen to me all the time, I
can only suggest that you check your
partner is'nt being too rough with his
hands to cause any possible swelling, and
that is fingernails are smooth and short.
Aside from that you may have got a small
tear during sex which should heal itself.
If you had an orgasm, it will cause the
clitoris to swell. It can become very
sensitive to the touch and actually hurt
sometimes. I am not sure if this is what
happening, but it is a possiblity.
