Masturbate Too Much?

Masturbation is a normal healthy thing to do. And frequency is not a problem for most people.


But over masturbation can cause a problem in both men and women called anorgasmia....The inability to have an orgasm during partner sex.


This happens mainly to people who go for long periods in their lives without a partner and come to rely on mastubation as their primary sexual outlet.


The mind and body get trained to expect a certain kind of stimulation in order to reach the orgasmic threshold. When one does finally have intercourse the brain's orgasmic centers get confused because the feeling of a penis inside you or with men, being inside a vagina, is so different from what you are used to. This can cause anxiety and disrupt the process of building to orgasm.


The symptoms may be a feeling of numbness in the genitals or a general feeling that you are not being stimulated enough.


I would suggest women with this problem who use a vibrator to use it during intercourse and for women who usually masturbate with their hand to do that while he is having intercourse with you.


For men with this problem there are no easy fixes and inhibited ejaculation is the result which is hard to treat. But for women this problem is usually fixed by recreating your masturbatory style during intercourse.

For men with this problem there are no easy fixes and inhibited ejaculation is the result which is hard to treat.

If a women will message / touch a man's penis while he is "doing" her, it will enhance the excitement and, perhaps, duplicate the masturbation experience. ;-{)

The answer is no. Male anorgasmia, or, as it's usually called delayed or retarded ejaculation is probably the most difficult sexual dysfunction to treat.


It has many varied root causes from childhood sexual abuse to pornography addiction. It can also be caused by certain drugs and some diseases such as diabetes and multiple schlerosis. Even in the case of overmasturbation discussed above, the prognosis is not good although if no pornography is involved it is a bit easier to treat than if the problem is caused by a deeper psychosexual problem.


It can take years of therapy to fix and even then the cure rate is low depending on the cause.


Marriages and other relationships where the man cannot ejaculate usually don't last long as the man becomes so frustrated that sex becomes extremely unpleasant and he turns to solitary masturbation which is the only way many of these men can obtain sexual relief.

I must say that everything in moderation is always good...

You technically cannot masterbate too much but you have to also look at this side of things:

excessive stimulation to the female area can cause desensitization. I have been using a shower massager and toys etc... For a while and now, when I am with a man it is very hard for me to enjoy it because it takes a lot to stimulate me down there. I have asked my doctors and such and it is true that you can overstimulate your genatalia causing it to become desensitized and harder to "feel" things.

If you cut back or stop using the methods that you are using to masterbate, the feeling will eventually come back.

Amythyst: want to know a little secret for women who feel understimulated, whatever the reason? Viagra. For you, not him.

It works by engorging the penis (or the clitoris) with blood thereby making the nerve endings more sensitive. And believe it or not it seems that the sensitivity factor is stronger in women than men. Of course most men with erectile difficulty are just happy to be able to get an erection again and not overly concered about penile sensitivity. And the makers of viagra don't make any claims to heightened sensitivity for either sex. But anecdotal evidence does claim it makes for stronger and more frequent orgasms in women.

The lowest dose (50mg) is probably best to start off with. I have a couple of female colleagues who tried it and both reported heightened sensitivity and one said she became multi orgasmic during intercourse for the first time. I myself am not in a relationship at the moment but I do intend to give it a try. Most general practitioners (family docs) will give you a free sample to try. My female colleagues don't take it every time they make love, mainly because it is very expensive but they do use it on "special" occasions.

I dont really agree with niceguy but you are allowe dto your opinion, but i'd like to point out that I used to masturbate at least twice a day and i've never been irritable, overtired of anywheres near skinny heh.

hhmmm... i'm a girl and i'd like to kno if u can masturbate wid blunt/flat surfaced objects...is it harmful to the vagina? i'm only 15....and i masturbate wid a thick marker closed...is it ok??? is it harmful 'cause i've had a bit of blood while masturbating.

There is no such thing as too much masterbateing. All my friends are girls, and all of them tell me damn near everything. So no, no such thing, go for it as often and as much as you want! 10 times in an hour!

I don't think I could physically do it ten times in an hour! If I want to go three times in a row I require a vibrator for time #3!

There is no such thing as overmasturbating as long as it's not interfering with your everyday life. It will not cause a loss of sensitivity.

While you are masturbating, you might have a temporary loss of sensitivity in the clit because it is overstimulated. However, this sensitivity returns if you leave it alone for a while. Don't worry about cutting back.

If anything, masturbating should enhance your sex life because you will know what pleases you (and be able to tell your partner).

Anorgasma is not caused by masturbation.