Whyme...I understand. I am dealing with this myself, right now.

1) we are sick...Not an excuse, a fact. We can't change it. No matter how much we wish we could.

I hear you! The rashes, the weight gain...I feel like a freak all the time. Luckily, I have some good friends (including fellow lupus patients) that get me through those hard times. We stick by and up for one another. If you want to talk offline, I can give you some contact information over pm.

I hope you feel better! A lot of us here know exactly how you feel! Ask away...We are quite a tight-knit group!

welcome!!!
Hugs,
ladybrannon

I am glad that you answered me and yes if you would send the information on pm I would gladly call off-line because I need help I just do not understand and each passing day just gets worse.