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Q: False Alarm!
asked by: nikki_caro on November 5th, 2003
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Hey im still on my period so im not pregnant. Its ok, I only have to wait til january. But that might be on hold too, because jose sister is going to come live with us and her mom is gonna sign custody to me. So im gonna be a 20 year old mom of a 13 year old! Hahaha so I figure having to take care of her and make sure shes on the right track with all my rules im gonna give her! I wont have time to plan a baby. Ill have time to plan but I cant have one yet, taking care of another. I have to plan her school, room, food, homeowork and all kinds of things. And my sister works at the junior high she will go to so I have andrea to watch her! Hahaha im gonna be on her like a hawk! I dont want her pregnant!

Oh get this, my sister alma. Well her ex daniel called and hes moving 3 hours away with his mom and he has the nerve to call my sister to ask if shes going with him. What a dummy! He hasnt seen the baby in like 7 months, they barely get along, he doesnt want visitation and he has the balls to say "are you coming with me, yes or no?" and she was like ..Um...No! So me and my mom were making fun of her saying shes moving out and we were keeping the baby. My mom says "well talk about visitation later. You can see her everyother weekend." I said "just call everyday for now, and send a letter" and she was like yeah ok! And she tells me to buy her a car as her going away gift! I said oh sure! But thats about it with me over here. Im still feeling sick at night. Like real nauseous. So I go to bed early. Jose wanted me to watch the hulk with him but I felt sick so I knocked out.

Hows everyone else doing?

Oh yeah and alma said shes depressed because she cant get child support no more because he quit and shes over eating and shes like im depressed, now I have to get a job! Lazy girl, but it was funny.
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smith8500
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Wow
Well, I hope you enjoy the life of a mother of a teenager! Lol.
Should be fun I guess. I hope things work out for all of your family. Any news on your father?
Love,
chanda
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nikki_caro
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Thanks!
No, nothing on my dad. Sad

no call, no letter, nothing. If given more time my mom said we shoulf just consider him passed away. Theres nothing we can do.

I also have lots of rules for my teenager!Haha boy shes gonna want to go home with all my rules! Shes free right now while shes with her mom, but she will get straightened out quick!
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youngmomtobe
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Niki,
thats great you are going to be a great mom!! Lol!!! I cant wait for the stories that you will tell about her!!! 13 yr. Old girls are a pain my lil sis was there a couple yrs. Ago and man do I remeber!!Lol!!! They got attitudes and lil mouths to go w/ them!! Good luck! I know u will have her straightened out in no time!! Muhc love and gdo bless!!

Jen
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nikki_caro
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Yeah I hope so too! From what her mom says, shes got a big attitude and stuff, we get along but im still gonna work hard with her.

Thanks! How are you doing?
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youngmomtobe
replied on November 5th, 2003
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I've been better ravens cell is broke thats my only way to communicate with him right now and I need him hes my only support and I miss him more than anything in this world he means the world to me I love him soo much and I cant stop crying b/c ive tried everything I can to talk get a hold of him today and he cant call me b/c we arent even allowed to talk eachother....Im just really depressed and not sure what to do anymore....


Jen
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nikki_caro
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Its gonna be ok! Get some ice cream! I bout 3 things of them yesterday! Lol I love ice cream. Just wait for him to fix his cell and dont stress over it because your baby feels it too. Cheer up for now until you can talk to him. Im sorry your going through that! I hope you hear from him soon. Why cant he have a girl call and ask for you, then hand him the phone? I used to do that! Lol.
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youngmomtobe
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Its hard I just to moved here this summer I dont know too many pppl and the ppl I do know is his friends and I have nothing to keep my mind off of him while im at home my parents barely talk to me hes seriously the only thing I have ... I cant stop crying im worried that something happened to him if he has a girl call my parents will ask 21 questions and I only have one girl that im actually friends w/ but my parents dont even like her soo im basically stuck being a mess..... Crying or Very sad

jen
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Well I just wante dto wish you luck, because since I am teen I know what my mother went through,and I glad that you are deciding to hold off on the baby for now. I am teen mom and I know how hard it can be, I wouldnt want you neice to experience this, and I know you wouldnt either. Lets pray shall we?

Stacie
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nikki_caro
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Oh im sorry. Why are your parents so strict? Dont they know that you are going to be with him whether they like it or not? You need to talk with them. Maybe writing it out helps. I would email my mom. You get your feelings out better that way. I hope things get better for you! I want some ice cream now! Lol try making more friends for now to take up your time. Good luck!

Stacie,
i would shoot my neices if they started out early. My sister-in-law is the one (13) that im worried about. Ill shoot her too. But im gonna get her involved in church, cuz they have great youth programs. Wish me luck on all this!

Ill let you all know when we plan to get her!
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sparklypixie12
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Good luck nikki-ur gonna b so brilliant!!! And im sure u've really got ur work cut out 4 u!
P.S. Ur sister's ex daniel sounds like a real looser! She's better off without him but she shud get him for all he's worth!! E.G. The car!
Liz x
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