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Q: My Ex/? Girlfreind

asked by: DB4ND on November 5th, 2003

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Alright i'm new here and I want to ask some questions involin my ex/? Girlfreind well me I got her pregnant im 14 and shes 15 and shes about 2 months and shes really confusin me first she got dehidrated and nearly died and now her family dont like me or my family I aint seen her for about 3 weeks and she says she misses me and she says she still has feelings but she dont feel her self and othertimes im a health questions and im a female part of the body and shes gonna go find sum1 else shes already dumped me because off an arguments I dont understand and now im worried im goin to lose her end off im tryin to be there but im just gettin on her nerves and shes not keeping the baby as off her familys decision will she get her feelings back and be her self after the abortion? And if so how long will it take im asking because of this pregnancy has she fallen out off love with me? Sad

Replies(19)

nikki_caro

replied on November 5th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Um..Well first you both are very young and she seems very immature. Your only 14 so might want to forget about her because there are other girls in the future. How did she nearly die of dehydration? Why didnt she just keep drinking water? Why would her family not like you for that? Her emotions are going crazy right now so you have to put up with it. She might have not been fully in love though. I dont know it seems confusing. You should use protection or stop having sex because your so young.

DB4ND

replied on November 5th, 2003

New User

nikki_caro wrote:

um..Well first you both are very young and she seems very immature. Your only 14 so might want to forget about her because there are other girls in the future. How did she nearly die of dehydration? Why didnt she just keep drinking water? Why would her family not like you for that? Her emotions are going crazy right now so you have to put up with it. She might have not been fully in love though. I dont know it seems confusing. You should use protection or stop having sex because your so young.

one she couldnt keep fluids down 2 we was in mad love everyone was sayin 3 her family blammed it on me for sum reason and 4 I dont want no ova girl sept for her and I did use protection and we aint immature its how we act not our age alright

smith8500

replied on November 5th, 2003

Especially eHealthy

Maybe

Maybe you aren't as immature as you act but that writing could sure use some hard improvement. I am trying to help you but I cannot understand a word of what you said.

DB4ND

replied on November 5th, 2003

New User

Ok sorry right she dehidrated as she couldnt keep fluids in her body she started throwin up blood and her belly linin and I dont want to find a new girl I want this girl and we was in mad love everyone noticed im just askin if this pregnancy could be why shes actin like she is and when all this is over will she go back 2 how she was? Offcourse she'll have lil things that would off changed

smith8500

replied on November 5th, 2003

Especially eHealthy

Well

I don't know. I mean pregnancy can make you very angry and have horrible mood swings. But you need to understand that as the father of her child you have rights too and she cannot keep that baby from you. Try and talk to her. Maybe make your parents talk to her parents. Anyway, do it before its too late.

nikki_caro

replied on November 5th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Well of course things are gonna be different after that, but we cant say whether shes gonna go back to you or not. Thats only something she knows. Try talking to her. And have your parents talk to her parents. Thats the best thing. Plus you still are noth very young so you might be saying that now but once your 21 you might have a different view than of being 14.

DB4ND

replied on November 5th, 2003

New User

Shes not keeping the baby I dont mind all I want is her at the end off this situation

smith8500

replied on November 5th, 2003

Especially eHealthy

Well

I really don't know what to tell you. Try to talk to her.

Mesmerizeu15

replied on November 5th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

I think that you should try to talk to her, and I think that someone needs to tell you both that when you lay down and have sex you are taking a risk, and if you arent mature enough to handle the consiquences then you arent mature enough to be doing it. This whole give you baby up stuff really urks me. I think that you guys need to talk..That isnt right...

Stacie Embarassed

barons_girl_504

replied on November 5th, 2003

Experienced User

Wait...i Have a Question

You said that your girlfriend was 2 months preggy right?? If that is the case don't you think that if her parents were planning for her to have the abortion that they would get on the wagon with it?! I mean it is now a little huhman being moving around in her belly. Are her parents insane?! I understand the fact that she is only 15 and she is more than likely not ready for a child yet, nor are you. But if abortion was in the picture, they shouldve done it a long time ago. I am totally againt sbortion and would never put my child through it...Especially if she was 2 months along!! That is obserd!!!!!!! Evil or Very Mad

best of luck to you and your girlfriend!
Sarah

DB4ND

replied on November 6th, 2003

New User

I agree I am against abortions but its just not my choice shes had the abortion now and she has to get rid of it its making her very ill trust me and well I used protection its one of them things were it just happens I cant change her mind like I cant make her decide how she feels...I just wish schools and tv channels said more about this sort off thing

insurancegirl

replied on November 6th, 2003

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insurancegirl

replied on November 6th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

DB4ND

replied on November 7th, 2003

New User

Alrite shes had it done and shes on the mend shes all bubbly and happy again now, wish I was I just cant get my head round her having an abortion but it was for best I just wish she'd stop changin her mind one min she loves me next min shes teasin me wiv a pic of a nother bloke or shes tryin 2 jus be mates...

casey rachelle

replied on November 7th, 2003

Experienced User

Holy Hell-o!

you are waaaaaay too young!

DB4ND

replied on November 8th, 2003

New User

ok now shes teasing me totally she keeps showin me pics of this guy sayin she thinks hes well nice and shes seein him not me and caca so I start movin on den she cums back sayin she loves me atm shes sayin she thinks im a total prick and last night she said she still loved me what is goin on? Crying or Very sad

casey rachelle

replied on November 8th, 2003

Experienced User

Well..

That just shows how immature she is. You need to move on no matter how hard it is and just let her be. She is obvioulsy ok with the fact that you seem to be hurting, so dont let her know it and just move on! I know it's hard but you gotta do wut you gotta do. Cool

nikki_caro

replied on November 10th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

I agree with casey. I told you, you were both immature. Just by your ages you can see that. And by the way she is acting, just proves it. You can find another girlfriend, your only 14.

Mesmerizeu15

replied on November 10th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Just get over her, what you guys have done (the abortion) isnt right. I think that you should just drop her, I think that you should wait a while until you consider "being" with another girl because I dont think that you or her are mature enough to handle this sort of thing. Thank you though, for sharing your story it makes us think about how often things like this happen to kids even younger than myself. Good luck with everything.

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