I hope someone can help. Me and my
boyfriend started having sex 3 years ago,
but only for the past year has it been on
a regular basis. About once a week, twice
if we're lucky to get the alone time.
Our problem is, is that he can not cum
inside of me. He never has in 3 years.
After about an hour, we tire and I use my
hand and oral stimulation to finish the
job. This only takes about 10 minutes
max. What could possibly be the problem?
Too embarrassed to get professional
advice. He's amazing in the way he
pleases me, I just want him to feel that
same thing. We're both worried about it
and anxious for it to happen for us.
Thanks for listening. :)
Thank you for your reply and hopefully
help. I hate to admit it, but your
probably right. I'm not jealous of my
boyfriend pleasing himself when he's
alone, but it does bother me a little I
guess that he can't wait for the real
thing and especially if this is the
problem. I'll ask him if we can try it
and see if theres any change. Also, i'm
40 and he's 26 and i'm his first lover.
That probably has something to do with it
also. (?) it's hard not to worry about it
because I think maybe theres something
wrong with me. He feels big to me inside,
but I wonder if maybe i'm too big inside
for him, unlike the somewhat tight grip of
a hand. (?) is that possible?
Thanks again. And if anyone else has any
other ideas, please reply.
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mindy6602
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Feb 2008 Posts: 1
In the same boat Posted: 02-29-08 17:56pm
Hi,
I am in the exact same situation with my
husband. We have been married for 5 years
& he rarely is able to ejaculate
inside of me. He is however able to
masturbate & ejaculate. I think there
is something wrong with him - however I do
not know what & this seems to be a
rare condition. Have you found anymore
informaiton that might help our situation?
Thanks for your post.
