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Q: Help I Think My Gf Could Be Pregnant

asked by: very_scared on April 4th, 2005

New User

Hi could someone please help me I think my gf is pregnant she will be 17 in less than a month and I am 18 her normal time between periods is 22 to 29 days with a average of 25 days (although once before she went 64 days without a period but we believe it was due to the stress of me being in the military. Because we hadn’t had sex for several months before I left) she has went 28 days she started on march 3rd and her period was over on the 7th we had one intercourse on march 13th we was very careful I only put it in her 3 times withdrawing immediately after each time and I wiped my penis off before each reinsertion neither one of us had a orgasm and she washed her self immediately afterwards. We have been dating for 2 years and have been having sex for about a year we are very much in love and want to get married and start a family but were not ready yet. She was in a vehicle accident where she received a severe back injury and they found she is missing a vertebrae in her back and has one that is not completely formed and her pelvis is not completely formed either because of scoliosis she can hardly carry her book bag since the wreck and some days she has trouble even walking so she is under a lot of stress and her only symptoms is loss of appetite but she rarely eats or has a appetite and her sex drive has increased if that has anything to do with it, but other than that nothing. I’m very scared for her and the baby if she is pregnant and i’m afraid she might have complications and I can’t bear to lose her. Before we started having sex we decided that if we got pregnant we would have the child because we don’t believe in abortion. I’m also worried that I can’t support her because I recently broke my back in the army and now I can’t work and i’m not receiving disability. So please give me your advice and do the think she could be pregnant. Sorry for the long post. Thank you!

Replies(10)

BrianBaby

replied on April 5th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

You didn't use any condoms?? Anytime you "insert" a penis into a vagina you run the risk of getting pregnant. I honestly don't think you have anything to worry about, it's just really important that she dosn't stress about this or it will make her period late. If she misses a period, have her take a test. Good luck!!

seksiHily

replied on April 5th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

So wait, did she most likely get pregnant before or after the crash?

And I agree with jen, you run a risk, but in all actuality I read in a magazine that you have an avg of 10-15% of getting pregnant each month

very_scared

replied on April 6th, 2005

New User

After the crash, I spent yesterday with her she seems fine no symptoms and was happy but she still hasent started yet

BrianBaby

replied on April 6th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Well it's better that way then, beause there's less risk of harmful things if she is pregnant....Just wait it out untill she misses a period!

very_scared

replied on April 7th, 2005

New User

Well she went 29days which is 4 days late she is almost always 25 days the only thing she has said is that her stomach feels wobbly and a little sick when she eats and doesn't have a appitite which she never does so its nothing new and her period is going normal so far so i'm gonna hope for the best

2ferano

replied on April 8th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Regardless of the percentage of likeliness of conceiving, people get pregnant everyday! People get pregnant on the pill, shot, with condoms breaking, etc.
It doesn't matter that neither of you had an orgasm or that you "wiped" before reinsertion. Precum can get her pregnant also and that can come out at anytime.

Since her periods haven't been normal anyway then she most likely is just stressed and therefore not getting her period. I suggest that she goes in for her annual exam, and gets on the pill. And you should use condoms even if you are just inserting three times. It only takes one of those little guys to get her pregnant and they come out whether you orgasm or not.

But, just don't stress and try to keep her relaxed also. The pill would even out her periods also.

BrianBaby

replied on April 8th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Have her take a pregnancy test

haliparot

replied on April 9th, 2005

Experienced User

Don't stress out too much. You know I think you can be a role model of guys because you don't believe in a abortion and you love your gf a lot that you are willing to support her. Have your gf a pregnancy test. There is always a chance of getting pregnant if there is a contact of genitals but in case she is really pregnant just have the baby for adoption for some time until both of you become ready to raise the child and to get married. Don't worry god will always provide poeple who are righteous.!!

2ferano

replied on April 16th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I'm not trying to disagree here, but it is very immoral and uncaring to give your child up for adoption and then when you decide you are ready, go and take it away from its adoptive parents. When you put a child up for adoption, it should be permanent. Any other way would only confuse and hurt the parents and the child.

RoseAxel

replied on April 17th, 2005

Experienced User

If your gf's on her period, she's definitely not pregnany. I'm too tired to tell all the ppl who've commented about their flaws of knowledge concerning the likelihood of getting pregnant (i'm referring to the 10-15% chance caca). Basically, you couldn't have been careful at all if she's not on birth control and you didn't use a condom. And 3 times is considered "only"??? Even if you wipe your tool after each insertion, there will still remain some sperm on it. And orgasm has nothing to do with the chance of getting a girl pregnant. I hope she's not pregnant either. Good luck, and be a lot more careful in the future, please.

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