Now Iit Makes Sense, She Is Bi Polar Posted: 03-31-05 23:02pm
Well, I am finally out of a year long
relationship. I heard her mention bi
polar before, but wasnt sure what she
meant, now things make sense.
Throughout this relationship I wasnt sure
if I was going crazy, or she was the
strangest person I have ever met in my
life.. One day she would love me to
death, make long term plans, etc etc, then
just not answer the phone for 3 days, and
be a complete b...., almost yelling at me
for bothering her...
So, I would excuse these episodes,
thinking she had a bad day, etc etc. She
would ask me to move in with her...
Almost immediately from the beginning...
Then I would show up at her house, and she
would have some dude over off the
internet... She would get mad at me for
this, and say I was insecure...
And that we werent exclusive yet.. I
guess when she was asking me to move in,
calling me 50 times a day, telling me she
loves me, did not mean much.
She would call me at all hours of the
night 2am, 3 am 4am, but I called her one
time at 10:30 and was cussed out for
calling so late! She would get
extrememly mad if I was not in mood for
sex...
She would profess love one second, then an
hour later, rip on me more than anyone has
in my life... I would ask her "i thought
you just said how much you love me", and
she would deny even saying it. She would
deny asking me to move in, basically deny
everything she ever said.
I could never get to know this woman...
Was almost impossible...She had so many
walls up to tear down, that all I saw was
her fake persona. She could only speak
through sarcasm... And me wanting to
get to know her was me being pushy, and
insecure.
I always thought it was strange that we
would spend 4 days straight together, day
and night perfectly, and then she would
ignore me like I never existed...If I
called her and she actually answered , she
would be busy with work, or tired, or just
always short and irritated on the phone.
Until I stopped calling, then she would
call me crazily... My cell phone one
night had 80 missed calls... I feel sad,
but glad it is over... Oh, and by the
way, it ended with her meeting another man
off the internet, 1 day after we had sex
and she was asking me to move in with her
and her 2 kids.
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subie90
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 19 Location: Louisville,Ky.
Posted: 06-03-05 20:01pm
Dude, I would have run like hell from
that, sorry.
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miss_demeanour
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-21-05 20:15pm
This kind of thing sounds soooooo
familiar...The phone calls at night, he
will be out till hours and call at 2 a.M.
When ive got to be up to go to work in the
morning, but when I call late, im called
selfish...If I want to talk about
something, and he's not in the mood im
supposed grin and bear it, but if he wants
to talk well...He expects me to listen.
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shanti1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2004 Posts: 87
Ex Boyfriend Is Mr.jeckel, Mr. Hyde, Would Love Your Prayers Posted: 06-23-05 18:53pm
Thank you for sharing your story, my ex
boyfriend has bipolar
days he would be the most sweet, loving,
kind soul in the world
over almost 2 years, I considered him my
best friend
we just had fun together,laughed alot, he
was such a love bug
i love to be hugged, and cuddled, sweet
kisses, someone who is honest,
trustworthy, I truly don't ask for much, I
am very low maintence.
I clip coupons and love to be in nature,
my boyfriend liked that I frugile with
money.
Anyways, I don't know why I attracted
this man,
because I did not know that he is
mr.Jekel, mr. Hyde
i have left him, but I am still afraid,
he makes up all these stories
i have no proof, just his word against
mine
i am scared, he said I took all his
medication, in which I did not,
he does not remember alot of things
he said he went to a meeting the night
before and did not remember going there,
and he drove, he took all the pills but I
have no proof,
he said he was going to call the cops
:cry:
i do not need this,
i am so stressed from him, loving me one
minute, and being so mean to me the next.
I would go to sleep, and then he would
wake me, cursing about nonsense...
It did not matter what I did, or did not
do, that was always something I did wrong,
he would not say sorry
but I would, as I did not want to make the
situation worse.
Honest to god, I did nothing wrong,
something is seriously wrong with his
brain, it is such a shame :cry:
if any of you are religious, I ask for
your prayers, my safety and my family's
safety,
that he will just forever leave me alone
I don't want to be called, harrassed,
cops being called in.
This is so embarrassing, I am a great
person, I do not know why this is
happening to me.
I am depending on god, because I am so
stressed out from this.
I trusted my x- boyfriend, he was my best
friend, and he could flip a switch so
easily prior to me leaving him
thanks for listening, and your
prayers!!!111
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BPjoe23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2005 Posts: 111 Location: dfw tx
Posted: 10-11-05 20:48pm
She has a mental illness, she has a mental
illness, she has a mental illness she has
a mental illness, do I need to go on, you
are forgeting she has a mental illness and
all that stuff is just part of being
bipolar.
Stigma is stupid, read books,and do
research. Just being someone had a bad
expereants with a bipolar person, doesn't
mean that if you met a nother bipolar
person the expereants will be the same.
I've read have of this bipolar forum.
This is just my opinion but half of you
seem like you got finger up your butts
about bipolar people and bipolar disorder.
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sundae21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2005 Posts: 4 Location: NewZealand
I Agree With You Man Posted: 10-17-05 21:42pm
My parnter has bipolar and I hate hearing
all this negitive caca about it. I hear
when hes not depressed hes amazing somany
times....
Bipolar is apart of who they are , its
not them against bipolar, knowing what he
does about himself and what he has learnt
though his ilness is what makes him so
amazing. He lives with this evey day of
his life.... Unlike other people he cant
walk away and leave it behind. He deals
with this and is still standing with his
head high is amazing to me,so much of why
I love him is because of this.
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poetprose
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Oct 2005 Posts: 22 Location: Ontario
Re: Now Iit Makes Sense, She Is Bi Polar Posted: 11-12-05 07:12am
smith24
wrote:
well, I am finally out of a
year long relationship. I heard her
mention bi polar before, but wasnt sure
what she meant, now things make sense.
Throughout this relationship I wasnt sure
if I was going crazy, or she was the
strangest person I have ever met in my
life.. One day she would love me to
death, make long term plans, etc etc, then
just not answer the phone for 3 days, and
be a complete b...., almost yelling at me
for bothering her...
So, I would excuse these episodes,
thinking she had a bad day, etc etc. She
would ask me to move in with her...
Almost immediately from the beginning...
Then I would show up at her house, and
she would have some dude over off the
internet... She would get mad at me for
this, and say I was insecure...
And that we werent exclusive yet.. I
guess when she was asking me to move in,
calling me 50 times a day, telling me she
loves me, did not mean much.
She would call me at all hours of the
night 2am, 3 am 4am, but I called her one
time at 10:30 and was cussed out for
calling so late! She would get
extrememly mad if I was not in mood for
sex...
She would profess love one second, then an
hour later, rip on me more than anyone has
in my life... I would ask her "i thought
you just said how much you love me", and
she would deny even saying it. She
would deny asking me to move in, basically
deny everything she ever said.
I could never get to know this woman...
Was almost impossible...She had so many
walls up to tear down, that all I saw was
her fake persona. She could only speak
through sarcasm... And me wanting to
get to know her was me being pushy, and
insecure.
I always thought it was strange that we
would spend 4 days straight together, day
and night perfectly, and then she would
ignore me like I never existed...If I
called her and she actually answered , she
would be busy with work, or tired, or just
always short and irritated on the phone.
Until I stopped calling, then she would
call me crazily... My cell phone one
night had 80 missed calls... I feel sad,
but glad it is over... Oh, and by the
way, it ended with her meeting another man
off the internet, 1 day after we had sex
and she was asking me to move in with her
and her 2
kids.
this doesnt sound like manic depression
but more like a personality disorder
