Why dont you try waiting!!!!!!!!!! Youre still a child! If there is a 'teen' in your age, its too early to be a parent

Just so you know and I don't mean to be rude my boyfriend (c.J.) is basically my only family. I am going to marry him as soon as I turn 18. I have known him for 5 years and he wants to start a family with me as much as I do him. My parents don't have a thing to do with my life it is like they don't exist. So I have basically raised myself and I had to grow up really fast. I am paying for my own schooling and everything so.... I really just want some advice on how to get preggie and stay preggie please and not be criticized because of my age.

I'm not going to criticise your age so hear me out. At 16 your body hasn't fully developed to handle the stresses of carrying a baby. I sympathise with your situation, and can understand the reasons for wanting a baby, however I don't think you have analized the reasons for yourself. It seems like you want to make the family you didn't have.
Why don't you and your boyfriend get married now?
I'd hate for you to end up alone at 18 with one or more kids to support.
As for getting and staying pregnant, you have to go through all the stuff the rest of us did, try, try, try, and pray.

News is that I am not preg yet... The red fairy showed up .... The reason I havent already married cj is because well he hasnt asked me and acording to the state my ma still has custody of me... So I couldnt marry him until I am 17 and that is with my moms permission.... Go figure the state of michigan. Ok and the try,try, trying part and praying part I can do :) I love you guys for your support and responces.

Hey hun...
First of all I just want to say I am soo sorry for what you had to go through. I had a miscarriage in decemeber and it the most horrible thing I had ever had to go through. Ur a tough one!!!! But it might be true that your body is not physically ready to carry a child. Everyones body is different. Some girls can carry a child full term at 14.. Others cant till their 20. So you never know.. Sometimes it can be even a bigger and more complex issue. So give your body time to heal and grow into a women. Then try again.... I wish you all the luck in the world!!!

I'm sorry hun....But your 16 and have already been preg. Twice and lost both babies......Is that not telling you something? Like maybe to wait and let your body mature enough to be able to carry a full term baby. Or that if your keep going like your are your either going to get an std or have to have your uterus taken out because you had complications with a preg.

It takes a long time for a womans body to recover from a miscarriage or abortion....You have to wait and give yourself time to heal and get ready to be preg. You need to slow way down and just be a teen. Go out have fun with your friends and hangout. And for goodness sakes use all the protection you can if your going to have sex.....I'd hate to see a girl as young as you to lose all chances at ever being able to have children because you wanted to rush things and destroyed your uterus.

I'm 25 and I will never be able to get preg. Its not sumthing I did or didn't do I have pcos. I had no desire to be preg. In high school. I was too busy with my friends, work and school. We started trying as soon as we were married. And trust me...Knowing you can never carry anther life inside your own body is not sumthing I would wish on anyone