Should I Stay Or Should I Go? Posted: 03-25-05 01:36am
Hey e'one.
I am in a quandary. There is a lady that
I have met and really like like you know
what I mean. We flirt outrageouesly yet
when it gets that hot ready for the next
step - ice. Sudden death. She has
confessed kissing girls before, yet has
had bfs too. Shes not looking for
anything tho she's been single for a few
months now. I want to get up close and
personal but I just don't think its there.
Her best guy buddy for years had made
moves for her and shes gently let him know
no. I am 2yrs older and I am not gonna
put myself into a spot to have problems.
It feels weird, we went out together the 3
of us as friends, and we got home and she
says do you think we'll all fit in the bed
together? Yeh I know we'd had a few ..
But I said thats not a good idea. She
doesn't want him, and I don't want him
either, so he went to bed and we slept on
the floor. Nothing happened. This feels
really weird, she seems to enjoy the
attention yet when it gets too hot she
puts up this bs resistance. I've had a
gutful of it. I really enjoy the
friendship so I am wondering if it would
really kill what we have at the moment
anyway. I think I should make some new
friends and move on. What are peoples
opinions?
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 11-03-05 11:42am
Uck
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AvatarOfUrDreams
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 May 2006 Posts: 67 Location: Chicago
Posted: 05-17-06 12:30pm
Find out at what age she was molested or
abused...
She is doing it all for the attention
because of trauma in her past.
I can guarentee that this is the case...
Don't get involved with the chaos she is
trying to bring into her life, it will
only hurt you in the long run.
People like that honestly don't realize
that something is wrong.
It's like women that are only attracted to
wife beaters because they want to keep
reinacting the abuse that happened to them
as children.
They can't help it and most of the time
actually want to break the cycle but they
can't because it is the way that their
brain is hardwired...
Same with this chick.
Run. Run screaming into the night.
Listen to love line...Dr. Drew has a lot
of insights into this type of behavior.
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fox1lady
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2006 Posts: 53
Posted: 08-23-06 18:16pm
She is confused about her sexuality, and a
part of her is still trying to figure out
which way she wants to go..If you are a
true friend you would understand..Give it
time..
