Wife Wants Another, I Do Not Please Help Posted: 03-23-05 19:26pm
I have three boys with my wife they are
age 7, 7, and 4 all boys. Our four year
old start school this aug. And I do not
want to have another child. She wants
to try for a girl. Ohhhh I so don't
want to upset her. We are talking about
this, but advice from others would help.
Looking for some right answers.
Thanks j.
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lenachka
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 26 Location: southern philly
Posted: 03-24-05 14:39pm
Hey I know how you feel. But a little bit
the opostite. Alright first of all how
old are you 2. I know how girls feel.
Just the feeling of having anothere child
excites them. But all you have to do is
sit down and talk to her. Tell her all
your reasons and also very important
listen to her.! Try to make the best
desision for the both of you . :)
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jaymws
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2005 Posts: 10 Location: TN.
Not a Fourth No Thanks... Posted: 03-24-05 22:19pm
I'm 29 and she is 30. I thank you for
her advice I belive I all most have her
convience that 2 pregency and three kids
are prefect and we can start doing more
active things together with our boys now
, a new born would just slow us down. I
know she wants to try for a girl but I
don't think we'll ever get that chance.
Once again thanks for your advice. I
just hope i'm not makeing a mistake by
telling her no! I'm sure she does
understand. We communicate very well
with one another.
