Girlygirl21,
I know how u feel, becaz I have been with my man for a year now, and well we havent ever took a break from each other but, just like u said in the beginning of the relationship you were happy becaz he noticed u more and payed more attention to u, like my man would always be soo excited when I would come over that he would literally jump on top of me becaz he was so happy to see me, but now we arent as close as we used to be, hes so much up his friends asses that he has no time for me ne more. We argue almost every single day now for the last 3 months. We have never broken up though. But I know how u feel, like with him not noticing u ne more. When I first got with my man, I didnt even care what I looked like that much becaz he would always tell me how beautiful I was to him and how much he loved me and so on...Etc. But now I spend hours trying to find the perfect hairstlye, makeup, clothes and he doesnt even notice ne more. We are no longer the same as we used to be and not as close as we used to be but I know one thing, is that he does love me and that I love him. The only thing that I can really give u advice on what to do is to just try harder and harder every day to get his attention and keep it while u can so that u two can express what u 2 feel about each other. And make sure that u 2 discuss what u like and dislike about the relationship and try and fix it now before u 2 end up like me and my man arguing every single day and night.
