I'm writing this on behalf of a female friend of mine, and told her that I could get some valuable opinions from you guys here. She is in a dilemma and wanted advice. Sorry, this has nothing to do with ms or medicals, but just opinions and advice required.

She is married to her husband for 3 years now, and he has always liked her to give him oral sex. She hates the idea but she does it every now and then just to please him.

Lately, he has admitted to her that when he goes on business trips he goes to a massage parlour and gets hand relief, and that there is nothing emotional about it. He has mentioned to her that he knows the place and the women there are safe.

She appreciates his honesty in telling her this. And although she knows it is not "cheating" in the sense of the word, she is concerned that he is getting some sort of sexual thrill outside of her. She still has a problem with giving him oral sex.

Pls help or advise thanks.