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whiteflag

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2005
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Ot: Husband And Business Trips
Posted: 03-23-05 08:49am

I'm writing this on behalf of a female friend of mine, and told her that I could get some valuable opinions from you guys here. She is in a dilemma and wanted advice. Sorry, this has nothing to do with ms or medicals, but just opinions and advice required.

She is married to her husband for 3 years now, and he has always liked her to give him oral sex. She hates the idea but she does it every now and then just to please him.

Lately, he has admitted to her that when he goes on business trips he goes to a massage parlour and gets hand relief, and that there is nothing emotional about it. He has mentioned to her that he knows the place and the women there are safe.

She appreciates his honesty in telling her this. And although she knows it is not "cheating" in the sense of the word, she is concerned that he is getting some sort of sexual thrill outside of her. She still has a problem with giving him oral sex.

Pls help or advise thanks.
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Tamadrummer

Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2004
Posts: 710
Location: Zephyrhills,Fl

Posted: 03-23-05 09:23am

This same question was answered in the womens, sexual health forum.

Simply stated, leave your husband if you are opposed to cheating because he is cheating on you. Point blank

if you can deal with the cheating, then you have answered your own question, stay and keep quiet because he is never ever going to stop, he will lie to you and say he hasnt cheated on your but he will be cheating!

I would leave but you have to make the decision to suit yourself not me.

Good luck to you and I pray that you have the strength to do what you need to.
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Justin_Toronto

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Joined: 28 Jan 2005
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Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 03-23-05 16:15pm

Whiteflag - no need to write this on behalf of your friend. She has created an account and asked this question herself already. :)
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2ferano

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717

Posted: 03-25-05 03:39am

Yes, seems your friend is in the same exact dilemma as you. Leave him. He is a lying cheat and you deserve a man who actually loves and cares for you.
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