Ot: Husband And Business Trips Posted: 03-23-05 08:49am
I'm writing this on behalf of a female
friend of mine, and told her that I could
get some valuable opinions from you guys
here. She is in a dilemma and wanted
advice. Sorry, this has nothing to do
with ms or medicals, but just opinions and
advice required.
She is married to her husband for 3 years
now, and he has always liked her to give
him oral sex. She hates the idea but she
does it every now and then just to please
him.
Lately, he has admitted to her that when
he goes on business trips he goes to a
massage parlour and gets hand relief, and
that there is nothing emotional about it.
He has mentioned to her that he knows the
place and the women there are safe.
She appreciates his honesty in telling her
this. And although she knows it is not
"cheating" in the sense of the word, she
is concerned that he is getting some sort
of sexual thrill outside of her. She
still has a problem with giving him oral
sex.
Pls help or advise thanks.
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Tamadrummer
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2004 Posts: 710 Location: Zephyrhills,Fl
Posted: 03-23-05 09:23am
This same question was answered in the
womens, sexual health forum.
Simply stated, leave your husband if you
are opposed to cheating because he is
cheating on you. Point blank
if you can deal with the cheating, then
you have answered your own question, stay
and keep quiet because he is never ever
going to stop, he will lie to you and say
he hasnt cheated on your but he will be
cheating!
I would leave but you have to make the
decision to suit yourself not me.
Good luck to you and I pray that you have
the strength to do what you need to.
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 03-23-05 16:15pm
Whiteflag - no need to write this on
behalf of your friend. She has created
an account and asked this question herself
already. :)
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-25-05 03:39am
Yes, seems your friend is in the same
exact dilemma as you. Leave him. He is
a lying cheat and you deserve a man who
actually loves and cares for you.
