I am 17 as well. If he didnt "cum" u should be fine. I mean there is such thing as pre-cum, but I still think you should be fine. If u are seriously worried then wait till ur periods due and see if u get it. If u dont then take a test, have one of ur friends help you because then if u arent, ur mom will never know. See ur case is easier than mine, me n my boyfriend had sex a little over a month ago, and we used protection for the most part, but I havent gotten my period or any of that, and I have all of the symptoms of early pregnancy, so trust me I know how u feel. I am terrified as well. Like I said tho, I would wait to see what happens. About the abortion issue, I am not a fan of that so I couldnt tell u if it hurts or not. But I wouldnt worry about any of it just yet. If u wanna talk at all, then u can private message me, or reply to this one. I hope everything turns out ok, keep me posted.
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