All this spam is getting out of hand.

I've looked at the site and it's not spam. They aren't selling you anything. And I know the guy who posted it, he can't reply to your post because someone banned him from posting. Talk about censorship. Just because the site expresses an opinion not everyone likes, doesn't mean you should condemn it. For the record...I-for one-could care less about size.

Of course you know the person who posted it! You are the same person!Haha!

Hottie,

i don't think he realizes that ip addresses are tracked on this forum.

Justme23,
but thank you for signing up as a new user and making your first post to reply to me. I'll be looking for some constructive posts from both of you, since you're such great personal friends, cincy (from cincy) and justme23 (from tenn).

J

Lol! People are so darn funny when they do stupid things like that. They will probably be banned and blocked by now, but it is hard to tell!

i doubt it... The admin on here seems to take his/her time on these kinds of things unfortunately. There are loads of posts like this all over the place which have been left untouched. :(

Well unless a mod sees them and turns in into admin nothing is ever done. I used to spend hours going through the forums and finding them, then by the next day they would be banned. But, admin hasn't been responding for quite sometime, they quit banning people for abuse and it just isn't worth the time anymore. I did email them last night, but as expected heard nothing, so I don't know if anything was done or not. Oh well. They only reason I ever even did anything before was because this is what admin asked, but I personally don't care if people advertise as it does not affect me. It is pathetic, yes, but nothing to worry about.
I just don't waste my time where it is not appreciated, ya know?

yup, I know exactly what you mean. I've sent a few emails in as well with no response... Quite disappointing since this forum has so much potential but it still seems to have difficulty really getting off the ground. People join, ask a question, get their answer, and never come back. :(

I am the same person...They banned me. But I don't know why. It wasn't spam lol. On another topic would either of you happen to know anything about hpv?

I've been seeing this girl that i've grown quite fond of. When I first started seeing her, I kept trying to get down her pants but she'd never let me. I couldn't figure out why because I could tell she wanted to do it. I didn't suspect too much at 1st. She did have few doctor appointments and after one where she was supposed to get a test, she became distant. I badgered her until she broke down crying and told me she had high risk hpv. I felt bad when she cried talking about the stigma and said even I had made jokes about people with it when she had casually approached the topic before. I felt terrible about it.

My 1st instict was to run away, but I realized I actually like her. It sucks because I like someone I can never have sex with. I've done some reading, and I feel bad because her type of hpv doesn't cause warts...It instead can cause cervical cancer. And if I were to contract it, it wouldn't do anything to me in all likelihood. But it can't be cured. If she were gonna be my last sex partner, this would be fine. But I highly doubt that because we're both only 21 years old. I don't wanna catch an invisible virus that's harmless to me and go give it to a bunch of women so they can develop cervical cancer.

Here's my concern I guess- I like her, but not enough to make that kind of commitment. But frankly, i'm horny. I don't want to cheat and I don't want to catch it. :(

Well, that's the thing about hpv. You would have a 99% chance of not ever getting any symptom whatsoever. But, yes, even with condoms you would spread it to any woman you ever had sex with and therefore she would have to get colposcopy's, possibly a leep and then pap smear's every three months for two years after and (god forbid) cervical cancer. And then everyone she would have sex with after that would also be in the same situation.
Is your girlfriend getting a leep or anything of the sort? You see, sometimes (although hpv never leaves your body) after the leep and when her paps start coming back normal again it is possible that you wont contract it. But, no one knows and you wont know if you actually have it or not.
The thing about hpv is that it forces you to make a commitment before you can have sex. A bad thing? That just depends on how you want to live your life. Ultimately no one should be having casual sex anyway and if you have any morals whatsoever, this now forces you (the person who has hpv) to live a life that is not promiscuos.
All I can say is if you aren't going to commit to this girl then tell her exactly what you just told us. If you like her then why don't you try to get to know her better and see if there is a future for you two. 21 or not, that doesn't mean you need to go out and have sex with all kinds of women. It only takes one that you love to make you happy.
But, don't lead her on if you aren't going to commit and don't cheat on her. If you are going to have sex with someone else then just break up with her. Don't disrespect her because something was given to her that could have been given to anyone. It could happen to you to. You already could be infected and not know, so you really shouldn't hold this against her. But, I also understand why you would be weary of having sex with her.
Whatever you decide, if you do have sex with her, make sure you do the right thing and before you ever have sex with anyone else you tell them you are a carrier for hpv. If not, it isn't fair that they didn't have a choice (which she kindly gave you and you would need to do the same to someone else), and it could be a death sentence for them. Lots of women for some reason do not get pap smears and they could have progressive cervical cancer before they even knew anything was wrong.
So, use your head and good luck. Just please don't hurt your girlfriend as she does not deserve it. She was responsible and kind enough to not just go ahead and have sex with you and lots of people would never do that.

I know I need to talk to her about it, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. I know she must already feel like nobody will ever want to be with her and I don't want to make it worse...And I really like her. It hurts my feelings that I may never get to be with her intimately. Not to mention being young and wanting sex. I don't know, it's just a lot to think about. Thanks for your help, i'll probably be banned again soon and i'm out of email addresses so I can't register for yet another username on ehealth. I'll read any advice you have, but I may not be able to respond. Thanks again

Yes, she is probably going through a lot right now. As I said hpv (if you are a responsible person) will keep you from living life as freely as you once did, or could have. In a way that is good though. But, as long as you aren't rude when you talk to her about it, she will understand. It will hurt her feelings, but at the same time she will know where you are coming from. I mean, if she would have been given the choice whether or not to be infected, I am sure she would have been going through the same thing you are now. So when you talk to her, if she starts to get angry or hurt, just explain it to her that way. Good luck.