I had a hysterectomy almost 2 years ago,
when I was 24...About a year ago, I
started noticing changes in my sex
drive...Sometimes I would really be
intersted, other times I wasnt
remotely...Which doesnt sound too
abnormal, but after a few months of that,
it completely disappeared! I have no sex
drive at all...To be honest, the thought
of it actually grosses me out, makes my
skin crawl and my stomach turn to think of
having sex, or even letting a man touch
me. Is this normal, or is ther something
wrong with me?? Will it pass?? What do I
do?
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 03-21-05 03:56am
It's perfectly normal. The best thing you
can do is communicate with your partner.
I doubt he is a pschyic - don't you just
wish men were - life would be so easy.
So unless you tell him how you feel he
can't begin to understand and may just get
frustrated which can lead to arguements.
If you can communicate he can have some
idea of why you feel the way you do.
I believe communication and contact are
the key to long lasting relationships.
Contact doesn't neccesarily mean sex -
contact is a quick kiss in the morning and
at night, holding hands walking throught
the park, a hand on a shoulder...
