Hey everyone! My name is kandyce, i'm 22 and i'm a single mom. I have a beautiful 9 month old daughter. About 4 months ago I started dating this guy...Everything was perfect. He is super hot, so sweet, he didn't mind that I had a daughter. In fact he always asked for me to bring my daughter with me. I mean everything was perfect...He treated me great and treated my daughter as if it was his daughter. We got engaged. To me it just felt like a fairy tale. Because for a long time (while I was pregnant and right after I had my daughter) I felt like I would never find a guy to be with that would love me and my daughter. Then I found him. You know I had a feeling it all had to be too good to be true. And it looks like I was right! So about a week ago we went to a concert with some friends. Well one of our guy friends came up behind me and started dancing with me...And me thinking oh this isn't a big deal we are just having some fun...I danced with him for a minute...Then I saw the look on my ex's face. He totally got pissed up off. So I talked to him and told him he had nothing to be mad about. That he didn't have to worry about me ever cheating on him...That I loved him and would never do that. I told him that I was just dancing with a friend and that it wasn't a big deal! Well he told me he was just kidding and he wasn't mad. So I don't know if he really was or not. Well my best friend decided to talk to him about it last tuesday...And told him that my baby's daddy was a really jealous guy and that I didn't like that...And that is one of the reasons we broke up. She told him that I was scared that the jealousy would break us up. Well he totally took it the wrong way and thought I was scared he would do something to me because of his jealousy. He hangs up the phone with her and calls me and ends it....Just like that. Doesn't give me a chance to talk or anything! What kind of caca is that?! So he tells me to give him 2 weeks and maybe we can get back together. Well I have a feeling that wont happen. So I sent him a message on his phone...Asking him if the break up was permanent because I had a feeling it was and telling him that I loved him and he broke my heart when he broke up with me. I told him it would break my heart all over again if he makes me believe we have a chance to get together in 2 weeks and we don't. So I simply asked him to answer that question...Do we have a chance...Or don't we? And I never got a response...So I guess that is my answer huh? I just dont understand how he can go from loving me and wanting to get married to completely ignoring me and not letting him explain the situation. Soo then I find out from a friend of ours...That he was telling people that we broke up because he was ready to be single and bring back the guy he use to me...The partier or whatever. So I guess that's why nothing about the break up made since...He was probably just looking for a reason to break up. No matter how little that reason. I just hate this. I thought I found the one for me. I'm soo tired of getting screwed over. I mean I think i'm a very pretty girl. And i'm not a big girl...I'm back to the size (3 or 5) that I was before I got pregnant. I just want to be happy. I don't want to wait. I want to fall in love and get married now. I'm tired of all the games!!!! Why are guys such jerks?!?!