I dont want to upset your or anything but to be honest I dont think there is really much that you can do. I can relate with you on some things because my boyfriends (childs father) mother constantly tells him that she didnt want him and how she wanted to get an abortion and right now their actually in a custody battle where the state wants to take all of her kids and she already lost 5 of them and now theres only my boyfriend and his sister left and so every time dcf (department of children and families) comes she tells her kids that she dont want them and to get out and that shes just going to let them take them. And to me its stressful because I dont know how a mother could ever say that to her children, they dont deserve it at all. But so I can relate to a mother who has failed at least in some ways. She also lets my boyfriend do whatever he wants, and allows him to smoke by buying him cigs. Anyways if the state does take away my boyfriend they'd put him into a foster home until he was 18 and if that does happen he most likely will not be allowed to go to anymore appointments with me for the baby nor be there for the dilvery or be in the babies life until hes 18 which is another 2 years. But enough about me. Your boyfriend is 16, now I dont know the laws out there but here in connecticut when your 16 you can leave your house and go live with someone else so long that you go to school. Now I dont know if your family is willing to take him in or if hed want to do that, but that is an option. As far as his mother, its easy for me to sit here and say not to worry about her, but honestly try not to. Because in the end things will work out. If anything you may have to wait until hes 18 and is an adult to actually see his child. Also another thing I think you can do is when your child gets there bring her to court and make sure that your boyfriend gets visiting rights with his baby since it is his. Those are only his rights.
Good luck!

Yeah, I see what you're saying....And really I won't mind if he lives with someone else 'cause they would respect his rights as my partner to see me and be there for the baby and everything. With his mother...She's not that bad with not wanting him....Because she controls him....She doesn't let him do anything. He's not even allowed to see his own grandparents or anyone from his own side of the family. He's litteraly restricted to the house without any outside contact at all except for school.

As far as him staying here goes...No can do. My room isn't big enough for me and my baby but we have to make due....My sister is coming up here after her baby is born and is gonna live with her baby in another bedroom....And my stepfather is fixing up a room in the basement for him and my mother to stay in. We have no room at all.....2 to a room now, and this house is small. I wish we could....But his mom won't let him stay anywhere else and he refuses to take her to court.