Third Trimester of Pregnancy Forum - Crying All the Time!!!!

I am such a mess, I am constantly crying (very very hard) I feel like I am not getting the support I need from my husband. I am 29 weeks and every week seems to be getting worse. I think he doesnt love me as much, that he doesnt want to be around me. I cry and get upset when he doesnt call me. I dont mean to be rude but its like he puts me on the back burner all the time..... And get this.. My due date is may 30th he has a buisness recreation trip in the middle of may for the weekend. He is not getting paid for it, its just for fun. He says he is going to go. This is my first child and he is going to leave me. He says he can be back in 2 hours if he needs to! Please tell me how you feel???? Am I being paranoid?

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nadeentears

replied on March 15th, 2005

Experienced User

Crying All the Time

You mentioned that this is your first child. This is normal to feel stressed and lonely. All new mother gone through that. Try to cope with your new life as a mother. Spend time with your baby . Play with him,her, go outside with the baby. Don't blame your husband for going to that trip, you mentioned he is not going to pay for it,any one will go for it. It is a good chance,and you know it might not return. He told you that if you need him he will come in two hours, that means he cares and love you.
When he comes from the trip sit with him tell him about your feelings,believe me this will help both of you and will improve your relationship.
My heart is with you

jessamyn

replied on March 15th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Babe I totally know how you feel.. It gets really hard trust me and there were alot of times when the smallest thing could get to me and I felt that paul just wasnt there simply not connecting with me on the level that which I truly needed... Pregnancy is an emotional rollarcoaster and there will be awesome days and horrible days. Your body is going thru alot... Just know its gets better! Trust me I am 41 weeks right now and I have been in such a better mood yeah I am grumpy and sore but emotionally it is so much better

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