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dkenna04 Experienced User
March 15th, 2005
I am such a mess, I am constantly crying (very very hard) I feel like I am not getting the support I need from my husband. I am 29 weeks and every week seems to be getting worse. I think he doesnt love me as much, that he doesnt want to be around me. I cry and get upset when he doesnt call me. I dont mean to be rude but its like he puts me on the back burner all the time..... And get this.. My due date is may 30th he has a buisness recreation trip in the middle of may for the weekend. He is not getting paid for it, its just for fun. He says he is going to go. This is my first child and he is going to leave me. He says he can be back in 2 hours if he needs to! Please tell me how you feel???? Am I being paranoid?
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nadeentears
replied March 15th, 2005
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Crying All the Time
You mentioned that this is your first child. This is normal to feel stressed and lonely. All new mother gone through that. Try to cope with your new life as a mother. Spend time with your baby . Play with him,her, go outside with the baby. Don't blame your husband for going to that trip, you mentioned he is not going to pay for it,any one will go for it. It is a good chance,and you know it might not return. He told you that if you need him he will come in two hours, that means he cares and love you.
When he comes from the trip sit with him tell him about your feelings,believe me this will help both of you and will improve your relationship.
My heart is with you
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jessamyn
replied March 15th, 2005
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Babe I totally know how you feel.. It gets really hard trust me and there were alot of times when the smallest thing could get to me and I felt that paul just wasnt there simply not connecting with me on the level that which I truly needed... Pregnancy is an emotional rollarcoaster and there will be awesome days and horrible days. Your body is going thru alot... Just know its gets better! Trust me I am 41 weeks right now and I have been in such a better mood yeah I am grumpy and sore but emotionally it is so much better


i'm here to talk!

Aim:darlinjessa
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MoMmY_2_bE
replied March 24th, 2011
I hope it gets better this is getting the best of me. I should be happy but my boyfriend just isnt there for me at all I have went through everything alone for 29 weeks and just hopes this crying will stop. I cry if he dont call if he dont show up and sometimes if he just say hello he tells me im acting like a little kid but what he doesn't understand is I cant control it I try but it just doesn't work. But seeing that I'm not the only one going through the same thing makes me feel better I dont feel like there's something wrong with me. Hopefully it will change when the baby comes I pray. I just wanna be a happy family I think my Son deserves that much.
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hermeshe
replied February 19th, 2011
Im always crying too, just signed on for some form of comfort myself. It's Friday night, me n boyfriend argued and I'm 32weeks. It's like 1 a.m. n he's out saying he needs to "relax". he won't tell me who he's with or where, now how do u feel hun? A little better Sad This is absolute torture, I am swollen, my hands r numb, I feel gross enough as it is n now he's roaming the streets while I have no clue what he's doing. I have been really crabby n he does put up with it well, but disappearing on a Friday night is just evil. I deserve more understanding than that, or let me guess, it's the hormones talking. Needless to say, not sure if this will last long.
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MoMmY_2_bE
replied March 24th, 2011
Wow I go through the same thing Im 29 weeks and my boyfriend never is around me his excuse is that he wants to live his life before the baby gets here LOL I never know where he is or who he is with which is wrong He wants me to stay at the house 24/7 and do nothing for 29weeks I have stayed at the house all day everyday while he runs around. He always say that its going to get better but how?? I want some time with him before there is a baby involved which will make it harder to get that time. I stay crying over the smallest things and dont understand why!!!! 10 more weeks cant come fast enough
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MoMmY_2_bE
replied March 24th, 2011
Wow I go through the same thing Im 29 weeks and my boyfriend never is around me his excuse is that he wants to live his life before the baby gets here LOL I never know where he is or who he is with which is wrong He wants me to stay at the house 24/7 and do nothing for 29weeks I have stayed at the house all day everyday while he runs around. He always say that its going to get better but how?? I want some time with him before there is a baby involved which will make it harder to get that time. I stay crying over the smallest things and dont understand why!!!! 10 more weeks cant come fast enough
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Lilmansmommy3912
replied February 3rd, 2012
Mommy to be...it's been almost a yr n I'm sure things r better for u but ur situation is so extremely similar to my current situation! I'm 34 weeks n my bf n I argue all the time, he works everyday n Im at the house 24/7. I cry all the time thinking about everything n I feel like he doesn't care anymore. I think I'm depressed n I'm extremely scared. N when he is home he is sleeping for work n on his days off he goes out. This is so hard
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foxybites
replied February 17th, 2013
These feelings are completely normal all I can say is I'm the same I'm 27 wks an a crying wreck , this is my 3rd child an its normal to feel that way so believe me wen I say just wait till the baby is here an if it carries on then get rid I'm waiting to c if it is me or I'm right so good luck girls x
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