Okay first of all you are in a teen pregnancy forum! Do you realize that? If not wake up and get the medical question out.. It happens. Women they get pregnant... And if you have any sense know yeah sometimes they dont think and get pregnant without protection or on a one night stand but thats life... You know how many people (even people you know) who have sex unprotected! They just dont happen to get pregnant... Get over it...Have you? Even once done it without protection? Or even pulled out? You do know you can get pregnant on precum... And hey medical question not everyone wants to adopt out their child or have an abortion... I got pregnant on bc and a condom thank you! I may not be this 16 year old unlicensed kid your talking about but I sure as hell will back them up! Yes its tragic when some 13 yr old gets pregnant and hides the pregnancy from their bf and parents without medical treatement then has no way of providing for their child and then becomes a member of pure goverment assistence and never works a day in their life and rops out of school yeah I dont agree with that... But there are awesome moms out there... Woman who happen to become pregnant at 16 and do great things with their life.. They finish school and get a full time job and go to college and make something of their self... Everyones life is different and everyones life is unpredictable... But if you have solely come here to bomb on these girls that are simply here for moral and emotional support then be gone!


Thank you and have a nice day!


Aim: darlinjessa!

Tell 'em jessa!!

well first of all, since you're obviously clueless, i'll have you know that birth control and condoms are not 100% effective.

With that being said, I have my license, im 19 years old, I have my own place, with my fiance, and I have 2 cars, thats more than I can say for my 25 year old cousin who has 2 kids, and her own house, but refuses to stay there so she 'crashes' on her moms living room floor.

Until you can actually spell 'married' and 'license' I suggest closing that flapping mouth of yours until you actually know what you're talking about.

A lot of girls on this board arn't some 12 year olds who are knocked up and living at their moms. I would sit around and observe before posting this nonsense.

This coming from someone who cannot spell! Why would anyone care what you have to say?
Also, prince charming, it takes two to get pregnant ya know, so stop badgering these girls! The men were also involved! And condoms rip, birth control fails! Get a clue!

Problem is from 30 years ago to today people women and men are sluts and starting at a early age. The averge girl and boy loses there viginity at 13 now that is sad. 30 years ago it was around 18 to 19. What 30 years people will be doing it at 8. It is our nasty ass world we live in. I am not giving people caca or judging but that is how our world works. There are more women on porns sites and hookers then ever. People dont care. You go to parties and women have sex with several guys, and go to a bar have sex. People think sex is a game, not like before when you love someone you have sex not just for fun. Im not saying im perfext no body is in this world. But I wish teens would understand life and they dont. Good day

So you dont have sex? Never have emotionless? You never have had a drink? Or wanted to go to a party?

Haha your talking about the general population.. Not everyone!

And you need to get your head out of 30 years ago... Times change by the second... Yeah 30 years ago gas even doing it costed 30 cents haha I pay $2.80 a gallon now!

Here hun does this make you feel better I am a soon to be young mother... And I looovveee my husband and I made loooooveee to him and we concieved I never went to a highschool party I dont drink dont smoke and have never touched a drug in my life, I graduated highschool and starting college in the fall, have worked since I was 15 and my husband has a career and we just bought a new car...

Does that fit your standards better?

Or is the fact that I am 18 still bothering you?

actually - if you actually knew what you were talking about. You'd know that back in the day girls/boys got married at very young ages, and then would start families. Please come here with facts, otherwise you make an ass out yourself, and young mothers.

I don't think sex is a game, never have. I got pregnant at 18, i've been with my fiance now for almost 2 years and we have a beautiful 4 month old daughter, believe me sweetheart, I understand life a hell of a lot more then you ever could right now.

Don't come here and health forum and whine when you don't know these girls or what they're about. These are not 13 year old littles girls who are getting knocked up and don't know what the hell they're doing. A lot of these girls are very mature, and are trying to get support. Atleast they're not out partying and getting into trouble.

And why is it that the problem is that more women visit porn sites? And women go to the bar looking for sex? Men have always done this, and now that women do it is a problem?
I personally hate porn and I go to the bar frequently, but not looking for or wanting sex. Yes, our world is sick. And sorry to break it to you, but kids are having sex at 8 and earlier. In the elementary schools the sex bracelets are/were a big thing and that included all kinds of sexual activity. It is a game to people.
It always has been, it is just that now it is more widely accepted and therefore more people do it. But, honey, that is everyone not just women. And it takes women for men to be sluts, so that factor has never changed either.
All of our entertainment in the us is based on sex. T.V, even network tv now is all freakin sex or sexual comments, etc. Does it really surprise you that children (and I mean children) are so often experimenting with it? It isn't their fault though, it is the adults who allow this crap to happen. It is the entertainment business and the general public who instead of trying to stop the smut are encouraging more of it.
I understand your anger, but don't take it out on teens who ended up pregnant! The pressure to have sex starts so darn early now and unfortunately lots of girls and boys end up having it very young and sometimes a pregnancy happens. But, at least these girls on this site have taken responsability, had their babies and are taking care of them. That is more than i, and I am sure you, can say for a lot of adults out there.
If you want to change that then start at the source! The source isn't these girls and insulting them isn't going to change anything.
You say that teens don't understand life and you wish that they did. They do understand life. They don't understand life as you live it or as you see it. They understand it as they live it and they see it and if you think back I am sure you will remember your life as a teen. The things that matter and that you are faced with every single day don't matter five or ten years later, but when you are living it they do matter!

To make sure you see it....


So you dont have sex? Never have emotionless? You never have had a drink? Or wanted to go to a party?

Haha your talking about the general population.. Not everyone!

And you need to get your head out of 30 years ago... Times change by the second... Yeah 30 years ago gas even !@#^ing costed 30 cents haha I pay $2.80 a gallon now!

Here hun does this make you feel better I am a soon to be young mother... And I looovveee my husband and I made loooooveee to him and we concieved I never went to a highschool party I dont drink dont smoke and have never touched a drug in my life, I graduated highschool and starting college in the fall, have worked since I was 15 and my husband has a career and we just bought a new car...

Does that fit your standards better?

Or is the fact that I am 18 still bothering you?

Wow this is some strong stuff lol....Im just stunned that someone has the guts to come to a teen pregnancy time and say stuff like this...

I agree you are entitled to your opinion and yes ill agree with you that our world is disgusting and sick.. But what are we gonna do about it? Your dissing is not gonna make it a nice.. Safe and happy place. Your bull is not gonna change anything. And just like jess was saying not all of us are 12 year olds that planned to become pregnant. I dont know how old you are but I probably have more going for me at 18 then you ever will have. I am happily married to my only boyfriend i've ever had. Im a christian, I dont do any kinds of drug..Alcohol.. Nothing.. We just bought our first house, new car, I work full time at a hospital..While going to school (i have a 4.0 so far) to be a nurse. And believe it or not, yes my pregnancy was planned. So what are you gonna say now? Are you gonna shove your bull in my face too? Most of these girls actually stand up and take responsibilities for their action. So just take your crap and go talk about "30 years ago.. Somwhere else"....

Yeah really what this world has too many off these days is not pregnant teens but stupid and ignorant people like you...

Just wanted to add that my post wasn't referring to all people either. It was just a majority thing, but I am not saying that sex is a game to everyone or that anything I said applies to everyone. I am sure you all know that, but I wanted to say it anyway!