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Mahogany7
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003
Posts: 6
Location: Massachusetts
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Confused And Scared...
Posted: 11-03-03 15:25pm
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I am a mother of twins at 20. I think I
might be prgnant again and I dont know
what to do or if I should keep it if I im.
Im also too scared to find out if I am
cause that means im going to have to deal
with reality. Please help me out with
some advice. I wish I knew people my age
with 1 or more children cause it would be
so much easier to talk to someone just
like me and know how it feels to have a
chid(ren). Any advice or someone to talk
to would help a lot 
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nikki_caro
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Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 11-03-03 15:46pm
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Hey. Im 20. I dont have kids, but I have
two neices and they are hard as it is. I
feel like a parent even though im not! I
know its hard but you can get through it
and there are so many programs that can
help too. Well if you are, I strongly
suggest you keep it. Youre scared, but
not keeping it is not a good idea. Please
think over that. With 3 kids, you can get
medicare, welfare, fam pact...Anything.
My sister gets all of the above including
food stamps. She gets like 300 in food
stamps a month. So it helps alot. You
can look into all that. It cant be that
hard. Will the father be there to help?
Do you have any other help?
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sparklypixie12
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Posts: 3099
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Posted: 11-03-03 19:56pm
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Please dont leave it til its too late
sweetie-even if u dont want 2,it's
something ur gonna have to deal with
now.There's a lot of people on here who
will help u out.When do u find out if u r
preggers?
Liz 
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lyingdownalone
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 40
Location: Canada
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Hey
Posted: 11-03-03 20:01pm
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My sister-in-law is 21, she had triplets
(sp?) when she was 19..And had her forth
child a year ago. She almost got an
abortion because she thought she wouldnt
be able to handle it. She did decide to
keep the baby and now is extremely happy
she did. If I were you, id go to the
doctors to findout if you're pregnant.
Then decide with the father whether or not
you can support this child (financially
and emotionally) if you think you can,
keep the baby, if not theres always
adoption..Or abortion, whichever. Think
about it first.
Monroe
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A-Lil'Mama*2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003
Posts: 89
Location: The Sunshine State
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Mohogany7.....
Posted: 11-03-03 20:57pm
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Hey!
I was in your shoes last month.
Thankfully, i'm not pregnant. I am also
20 and have 2 children. My advice is to
find out a.S.A.P. That way if you aren't
you won't stress over nothing, and if you
are, you can get prenatal care. I am
here for you all the way. For real, it
will be good to talk to someone in the
same situation.
Take care.
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insurancegirl
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Posts: 5286
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Posted: 11-04-03 09:46am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-28-04 14:20pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2728
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 11-04-03 09:51am
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I am a 16 year old teen mother, and I know
what it is like to just have one child, I
can just imagine what it is like to have 2
let alone 3. But I am not complaining
because my son is a god child. I am
praying for you and you are in my
thoughts. Please keep in touch and let us
know what happens!!
Mesmerizeu15
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megan86
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Joined: 04 Nov 2003
Posts: 2
Location: Marion, IL
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Posted: 11-04-03 15:21pm
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 hello i;m really
new at this but I just want to know if
there is anyone out there that will chat
with me about my concerns. I'm really
scared because I think i'm pregnant again
and I don't know what to do because I was
pregnant about 6 monthes ago and I lost
it. It took a really big effect on me.
So I don't know what to do. My boyfriend
don't want to stand by me through this but
i'm going to go take a test and see what
happens. Please Pm me, just you can help
me!!!
Megan
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 11-04-03 15:28pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-28-04 14:21pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 11-04-03 15:30pm
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Hey megan, welcome. Dont stress it. We
are all here for you! When did you last
have sex? When is your period due? Did
you use protection?
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Mahogany7
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003
Posts: 6
Location: Massachusetts
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I Know
Posted: 11-05-03 19:21pm
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Thank you everyone for replying. I am
going to find out a.S.A.P. I need to
find out for my peace of mind and to deal
with it. But I do know that god is with
me and that children are blessings cause
there are people who dont have any and
want some. Im just scared and nervous.
Ill be sure to keep everyone updated
(oh yeah my fault I pasted the same
message again cause I didnt think it went
through)
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Well
Posted: 11-05-03 20:37pm
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Sweetie,
i hope things work out for you. I am
praying for you!
Love,
chanda
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Mahogany7
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003
Posts: 6
Location: Massachusetts
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Posted: 11-06-03 23:29pm
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Thank you chanda that means a lot
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Mahogany7
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003
Posts: 6
Location: Massachusetts
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Unfortunately.......
Posted: 11-11-03 10:42am
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Thanx everyone for their advice but I am
no longer pregnant. I miscarried right
before I even found out that I was
pregnant. I was 6 weeks. I m not gonna
write a lott cause it still hurts but yet
in a small way I feel maybe it wasnt meant
to be. I dont know> anyways thanks for
everyones advice anyway
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 11-11-03 11:00am
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Oh honey (((hugs)))
i am so sorry for you loss. I know how
hard losing a child is. You will make it
through this. Stay strong, i'll be
praying for you.
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cabryan
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 2
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Adoption
Posted: 11-11-03 14:56pm
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I'm tired of everyone saying to keep a
baby, when you don't always feel that it's
right. Not everyone is financially able,
mature enough, or willing to give up their
carefree life to raise a baby. And
better yet, a child. Definetely consider
the option of giving both you and your
baby a better life. It will be the
hardest thing you ever do, but it will be
worth it!
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cabryan
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 2
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Posted: 11-11-03 15:14pm
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Dont forget that if you do want to have
the baby and give it up, there are lots of
support out there and people to help you.
You don't have to keep the baby if you
don't want, or if you can't. If you need
to talk pm me.
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