Joined: 14 Mar 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Seattle, WA
What to Do? Posted: 03-14-05 16:43pm
I know this sounds embarrassing, but I am
17 and I have been with my bf for a while
now and I always get nervous around him
and I just recently lost my virginty to
him and I wanted to have sex. I just
wanted to know if you girls could help me
with some tips on sex. I felt like I was
just laying there. I don't know the right
way to move. Someone please help me with
this because it bothers me I want to be
able to enjoy it with him. I know I am
scared so please don't tell me that is my
problem. I wanted some tips of what to do
in bed so please help me and please reply
soon. Thanks!!
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 03-14-05 19:35pm
The first thing you need to do is gain
confidence in what you do. With this the
nervousness should subside. To be
honest, you have to do what feels natural.
You must communicate, learn what he
wants, and he must also learn what you
want. Sex is a two way street, both must
give and both must receive.
I know there are going to be some guys who
respond to this and will try to give you
some advanced advice on how to pleasure a
man and what not. Honestly, don't listen
to it. This is something that takes time
to develop, and while you both learn each
other's bodies you will also grow closer
to one another.
Don't try to rush into things prematurely.
Do what feels natural, and communicate
about what each other like or do not like.
If you do something and his response is
positive, then keep doing it.. Work with
it. If his response is negative, then
try something else. Likewise, you should
also provide some type of "guidance" (even
if it is not verbal), and he should act
accordingly.
Good luck.
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summer17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Seattle, WA
Posted: 03-14-05 19:40pm
Thank you... Would anyone else like to
help me to
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summer17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Seattle, WA
What to Do? Posted: 03-14-05 22:02pm
Come on you guys I really need help with
this. It is really bothering me.. I
don't know what to do about it.. I really
want to enjoy having sex but I don't know
how to if I don't even get to reach a
climax. I love my bf very much. I just
want to enjoy sex with him and I can't..
Please help!! Does anyone have any tips
at all. Please tell me if so.....
