Bad Bad Pain During Sex, What Could It Be?? Posted: 03-07-05 23:53pm
We have sex often, I would say as often as
we can... Never had any pains... Well
tonight we were doing the deed, and my
fiance is well-endowed lets say... Not
being gross but I need to describe... He
is very long... And thick.. But very
long so he goes way up inside me...
Well tonight we were doing it, not rough,
not anything out of the ordinary and he
thrusted "it", not hard, but just deep
inside me, which he has done everytime we
have had sex... And I got this pain that
hurt sooooo bad it made my legs start
shaking very bad... There are lots of
times that we are really into it and get
rough and I have never had this
before...
I made him stop and get off, because it
felt like I was going to throw up because
it hurt so bad whenever I would just
breath or move my stomach in any way, it
felt like someone was grabbing something
and twisting as hard as possible up in me!
I dont really know how to describe it...
It wasn't in the vaginal area, it was up
inside me, maybe in my abdomen it felt
like... We waited about 20 minutes of me
just laying there and it seemed to go away
so I wanted to finish, and when he got
back inside me, I thought I was going to
die!!! It hurt soooooooo bad... Same
feeling once he stuck it in only about 3
inches or so and I couldnt let him go any
further...
After about 30 more minutes I went to the
bathroom and when all my muscles from the
vagina area to the rear area relaxed, it
hurt so bad so I had to tighten everything
up so that it would go away...
Like I said this has never happened before
ever... Even with past partners... Im
not on bc or anything and im not due for
my period until I say the 14th of march...
Im 20 years old... Last time we had
sex was the morning of the 5th... Any
ideas??
And we were in missionary the whole
time... It still hurts now as I am
leaning over while sitting down on the
computer typing... Sorry so long...
Please help...
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-09-05 15:15pm
That happened to me once (and a friend of
mine). The guy I was with wasn't even
big at all and we also didn't do anything
out of the ordinary.
It hurt so bad I went to the bathroom and
almost passed out. I laid on the
bathroom floor for about two hours trying
not to puke, pass out or die. I honestly
thought I was going to die.
It hurt for that whole night and the next
day it was a lot better, but still a dull
pain. I have a cyst on my right ovary
and I thought that it burst. I couldn't
think of anything else.
Well, I went into family planning and
asked the nurses and they said that
sometimes when you have sex if your cervix
is hit too hard or just the right way it
can hurt really badly. Also, if your
uterus is being rubbed and shifted around
that can cause dizziness, nausea and
pain.
So, I just figured it was that and let it
go. I have only had sex twice since then
and it has been over a year now. Both
those times everything was fine, but
honestly, I am so scared to have sex
because I don't want to feel the pain
again!
If it happens again or if you bleed, I
would see your doctor for sure. If it
will make you feel better you can go see
your doc now, it couldn't hurt. If you
find out anything else, let me know!Lol.
Sorry I couldn't help more.
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neeko177
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2005 Posts: 427
Posted: 03-09-05 18:45pm
Yeah thats kinda what it was like but its
hard to explain.. We have sex all the
time... And were doing nothing outta the
ordinary... My mans not like huge or
anything either.. Just sumtimes I can
feel it in my tummy.. But ina good way..
And this time I could feel it in the same
spot...Rite in my tummy like 3cm down from
my belly buttom..It hurt like a health
forum instantly and I pushed him away..
And he got all scared that he hurt me and
thought he did sumthing wrong ... Lol hes
paranoid.. And I just layed there for a
while nd it felt like all my stomach
muscles were all tensed up.. And I
couldnt fiugre it out cuz my vagina didnt
hurt at all...So we tryed it again.. And
he put it in only a lilttle tiny bit and
did it like that for a while and it didnt
hurt.. But as soon as he went in further,
it always made this pain in my stomach id
just push him away b4 I even knew what I
was doing it hurt so bad.. The last time
we tryed which was a while ago I ended up
in tears.. Cuz I thought it didnt hurt
anymore.. So we kept doing it and all the
sudden it did and I was on my stomach ina
different position and I couldnt get him
off fast enough.. I dunno what it is..
But I think I mite be pregnant and I dunno
if that would have anything to do with it
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-10-05 11:56am
Im not sure hun. I think seeing a doc
would be a good idea. Sorry I couldn't
help more.
