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Q: Rips And Tears
asked by: mic0hell0e on February 27th, 2005
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After I have sex (each and every time it seems) I have a stinging feeling like there is a cut near my vagina, right at the edge of the opening heading towards my anus.

It feels like a tear, and, upon using some nifty bending/mirror handling techniques, it looks like a tear too.


- is this dangerous at all? And is it possible that it is just a tear just because of my specific "parts". (i know that everyone's are different :p)

it goes away after a while, but I mean, it's annoying and uncomfortable at the time. And it will actually bleed quite a bit if I have vigorous sex.

Any comments, ideas, or responses would be super nice. Super. Emphasis. Haha
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mdw2004
replied on March 1st, 2005
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Understanding
I feel your pain, and I have no idea what is going on! Someone help is out!
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mdw2004
replied on March 1st, 2005
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I feel your pain, and I have no idea what is going on! Someone help is out!
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mdw2004
replied on March 1st, 2005
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I feel your pain, and I have no idea what is going on! Someone help is out!
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mic0hell0e
replied on March 5th, 2005
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*bumps up topic*


a logically response would be nice.
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Justin_Toronto
replied on March 7th, 2005
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Hi mic0hell0e,

sorry I didn't see this message earlier. You are absolutely right, it's a tiny tear at the bottom of your vagina that will likely sting and continue ripping if it is not properly healed. It's nothing to be alarmed about, and happens to some women from vigerous sex... More often from akward sexual positions. And it's actually most common from women using toys. It is nothing to be alarmed about, however due to the region the tear occurs you must be extremely careful to keep it clean from possible infection. It can take months to properly heal since it positioned in a place that is constantly moving.... (i.E whien you walk). Until it properly heals, there is a good chance it will tear open again if you have vigerous sex... And you'll have to wait all over again. :)

no worries, just take it easy for a while and stay clean.

Justin
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2ferano
replied on March 9th, 2005
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It is also possible that it is the shape of your body. It is hard to explain, but some people's skin is really tight down there. (and I don't mean "tight" as in being a virgin tight that will eventually stretch) I mean, your actual skin.
Do you have your annual pap tests? If you don't, well you need to! (cervical cancer can be prevented! And also, std's are a bugger!) if you do, then the next time you go(or if this needs taken care of now, then go now) just ask the doc to look and tell you what is going on.

But, if you absolutely won't go to the doc, then just restrain from sex until it is completely healed. Then the next time you have sex make sure you are very lubricated and take it easy. See if it happens even when you are extra careful. If not, then it is most likely you are being too rough for your body, but if it still happens then I would see your doc to ask about solutions. Good luck.
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