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Q: I Really Need to Let My Feelings Out Help Me!!!!
asked by: prettychicky99 on November 2nd, 2003
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Hi
3 months ago I was raped by my fiancee and we were happy until I didn't want more kids ... I have 2 , why more? He got pissed off and was felling me out then told me to take off my clothes then he was rubbing his penis on me , then it happened just like, that I was crying and was hurt. My loving fiancee was gone. Last night I was talking to him about while we were eating and he said I wanted it.. I didnt I was just about to get my tubes tied in a week or so.... Im only 19 but I don't want anymore.. About 3 days ago I went to my doctor told him what happened and gave me " oh im sorry" any guy who says im sorry to a raped 19 year old girl is a jerk... With a capital j....

Hayley Rolling Eyes
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KissyBai912
replied on November 2nd, 2003
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So now u were raped by ur fiancee? Hmmmmmm.......I thought u were married. I think you need to get ur story straight.
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sparklypixie12
replied on November 2nd, 2003
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I totally agree kissy-think I smell caca
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youngmama
replied on November 2nd, 2003
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I also thought she was raped 3 days ago...

But ya know what would I know, being as that I am just a teen mom so I must not see the obvious! Laughing

much love
-jessika-
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nikki_caro
replied on November 3rd, 2003
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I think shes making this up. But why? You listened to him, so he didnt force you. You can say no. And you didnt report it. But you still love your fiance? So was it rape or did you just not want it? You say 3 days ago, you dont want no more kids, but your 3 months pregnant?
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Suzy
replied on November 3rd, 2003
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I didn't actually think surgeons would tie someones tubes if they are only 19 ? Don't you have to be like over 30 or something before they will consider that procedure ?
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on November 4th, 2003
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I dont believe her, I wouldnt be eating with someone who raped me that is stupid, I would be somewhere else, a safe shelter if I had to. Anywhere but there. And suzy, I am on your side all the way but to answer your question you can get your tubes tied at 18...Laws are crazy...Boob jobs at 18....Uahh!!
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sparklypixie12
replied on November 4th, 2003
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What kind of crazy ass doctor wud tie the tubes of a 19yr old? He needs 2 be sued!!!! Any lawyers in the house?!!! :d
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CrombieChic16
replied on November 4th, 2003
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Ok, first she's 21, then shes 19, then it was her daughter who wrote the stories, then shes married, but wait now its her fiancee, then she was raped by him....Then she said she was in school and had to do a report on teen moms....Hm, ok obviously this "girl" has some confusion going on in her head...Anyway to get her outta here?
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nikki_caro
replied on November 4th, 2003
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Suzy,

i think you have to be at least 24 or 25 to tie your tubes because my sister looked into it, cuz she wants her tubes tied but they said she has to wait until that age. Shes 17 so she has a long time to wait!
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Suzy
replied on November 4th, 2003
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Wow nikki, yeah I wasn't sure what the age was but my sister is in the same boat. She is 27, has 3 kids and it is only now that the doctors have even been willing to discuss it with her.
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nikki_caro
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Oh. Well thats what they said here in calif.Because my sister is at risk if she gets preggy again, which I doubt will happen because she hates men. Like really hates me. Its funny. Shes teaching the baby to say dead-beat. Shes that bad! Hahaha

so your sis is getting it too? Well yeah, 3 kids is good. Jose wants 10! Shoot me! Im going for 4 like my mom.
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Suzy
replied on November 5th, 2003
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Surprised oh my goodness, 10 kids. Whoaaa !! Ya, I think 4 kids would be lovely, a nice comfortable sized family. Ya well, I nearly ended up the same way as your sis, I had a real bad experience with my last boyfriend and was convinced I would not bother getting close to anyone ever again, until I met hubby and I now know it is all going to be just fine. He is the sweetest person I have ever met. So he has given me back my belief that some men can actually be caring and beautiful people. Good luck to your sis, she sounds like she has had a rough time.

Suzy
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nikki_caro
replied on November 6th, 2003
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Hey,

thats great you found your hubby! Im happy to have found jose too! Hes like the sweetest thing! He always wants to cuddle and stuff! But ive been with some bad guys. I was happy to be single then I met jose. Sometimes I wish I could be single again but then I dont want to be without jose. I dont know its weird! But good luck to you! My sis is getting along well too. Shes strong!
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dyingbaby22
replied on November 8th, 2003
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That Is Soooo Funny
Prettychick .. Is totally a health question. Anyone agree. She has told many lies and is very dumb if she really is 19.. Hmmm..
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Darling
replied on November 8th, 2003
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Re: That Is Soooo Funny
dyingbaby22 wrote:
prettychick .. Is totally a health question. Anyone agree. She has told many lies and is very dumb if she really is 19.. Hmmm..

i thought you knew she wasnt 19...Veery fishy and quite petty
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Suzy
replied on November 8th, 2003
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Lol dying baby, looks like tanya caught you out. Nice one tanya, I didn't even catch onto that until you pointed it out.
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Mommy_2_b
replied on November 9th, 2003
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Wow this is not a good thing - I think I missed some of the first convos about this but whatevers going on isnt support which if ya read the name its a (caps) support forum! And if whoever wrote this happens to not be real. Sweetie don't even pretend to be something ur not ok, if you've got a good life goin and everything then why would you want to be like some of us who are sooooo young and have children its not the fairy tale life you think so stick to your own world and do something productive with you life! Exclamation Confused Good luck~melissa
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Staylor
replied on August 14th, 2005
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Why?
Prettychicky or whatever you name is ... I have been reading through all your posts thinking about what an awful person you were and how much help you did need to be faking and leading so many people on... But I was just going to let it go until I read this one! I just wanted to comment so that everyone could see and not just you because I am sure you dont care. Rape ! Is not something to joke about. This is a something that happens to women everyday and every day another woman's life is destroyed. It takes women several years to get over something like rape if ever. I wish that people like you could just feel the pain of being raped and not the act but the aftermath of a woman who has been raped. Every night I am scared to death to walk to my car, to walk to my apartment, to live in my apartment-- without someone else there for fear that it will happen again. Sometimes I am afraid of even living--- it is people like you that makes the cops and doctors treat women like they treated me with such disbelief and cold attitudes until they proved that yes this did happen. Now let me explain again I would never wich rape upon anyone but for you to experience the pain and cold fear of my everyday -- even just a glimpse then you would understand the horror and hurt that your post has caused me and I am sure every other woman. Please as a health forum support community do not take this woman into account and now assume that every woman lies about being raped because it is women like her that make this world disbelieve victims like me.

I am truly sorry if you are telling the truth and would advise you to get counseling-- but I have a hard time beleiving you due to all your other posts.
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seksiHily
replied on August 15th, 2005
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Not to be rude, but she stopped coming over a year ago. You should know that, you'd have to go way bay to find this post
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