Yes, female ejaculation does really exist. I think the main reason most of us don't do it is because it feels like you have to urinate during sex. For me, it usually happens during intense clitoral stimulation (either oral sex or a vibrator). I recommend that all ladies empty their bladder first, and then when that "gotta go" feeling comes, let it go! The difference between this and urinating is that if you stop the stimulation, the feeling goes away, and the fluid won't come out. Also, the fluid looks and smells different from urine.