Depending on the position, and force, it varies.

As sick as it may sounds, I prefer the whole "doggy style" position, because it makes it less awkward for me.

Make sure he goes very slow at first, so you can decide whether or not it's going to hurt you. Sometimes i'm fine with it, and other times it'll really hurt me, but thats usually because he's being retarded and "jumping right in".

Anyway, i've heard a lot of women say they have their best orgasms durign anal sex.

I, for one, haven't had an orgasm during it, but I do enjoy it. It feels so different (when it's not painfully uncomfortable) and if your man is giving, theres tons of opportunity to get some wicked clit stimulation.

Just make sure you go slow, change condoms if you're going to go back and forth from vaginal to anal, or stop and wash up if you're not using a condom (you can spread bacteria and get an infection I hear), and use lots of lube.

Remember, this place was originally an exit, not an entrance, you gotta' be careful

The first time I did it I didnt like the feeling but was "toughing" it out cuz my bf obvioulsy did lol... So it sounds stupid, but if its painful and awkward dont back out rite away give it sum time.. Cuz it feels really good after a little bit, well for me if my bf touches my clit and stuff.. Thats amazing

My boyfriend suggested that we try anal sex (since I refuse to have real intercourse with him out of fear of becoming pregnant), and I agreed to try it because I know how much of a horny pervert he is :lol:

the first time we tried it in the classic "doggy style" position but it hurt me like crazy because it was a bad angle. I've only ever enjoyed anal sex on 2 occasions - one position was me laying on my side with my boyfriend right behind me, and the other was me on my back, with my boyfriend sitting between my legs.

I always make him use lots of lubricant and a condom when he does this. As everyone has said, when it comes to anal sex, caution needs to be taken. Things were not intended to enter the anus, so it will hurt if you're rough. You need lots and lots of lubricant, and patience. Take it very slowly until you're relaxed enough to handle the feeling, because if you tense up it will hurt like no other pain you've ever felt before. But sometimes even that is not enough...My boyfriend does all that (sometimes) and I will wind up in tears because of the pain. I was not scared or tense, but it hurt.

The bottom line, though, is experimentation. Give it a shot, utilizing everyone's information, and see how you like it. Best of luck to you!

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Scaredbaka

Just take ur time and go slow. Make sure he eases into you s-l-o-w-l-y, so he doesn't tear anything. You need lubrication (k-y or some anal ease). When you are receiving him try and bear down like you are going to the bathroom -- this opens you up so to speak to ease the penis in to you. The important thing is to take your time. Obviously it is tighter then the vagina and this may cause your guy to try and speed up the action. My wife just tells me to s-l-o-w down. Feels good.

Be careful! This can cause several problems. Your butt is an exit, not an entrance and you can get hemmoroids, infections, colon cancer, etc. It is up to you, of course, but you have to be very careful, and weight the pros and cons for you.

take it nice and slow, always use a good lube, like "wet" or astroglide. It may not be easy the first time but for us it just keeps getting better. I have some of the most extreme orgasms with anal. Be safe.

You will get an infection go from vagina to ass only

Take it reeeeeeaaaal slow hun and make sure he uses lots of lubricant and wears a condom, like others have said. If it hurts too much, don't continue with it. I happen to enjoy anal sex quite a bit (it feels much different than regular intercourse, at least to me anyway), but giving in to anal sex resulted in my boyfriend wanting it really often, when i'd rather just have it occasionally.... Sigh. So be careful that you don't create a monster . ;)

nicole

P.S. Don't feel badly if you don't like it and don't be afraid to tell him that was a one time thing. It isn't for everyone (i for one would never let it happen to me and wouldn't be with anyone who wanted it either). It is very unsanitary and dangerous to your health also, so once again weight the pros and cons!