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Q: Plez Help!!!!
asked by: kay27 on November 2nd, 2003
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Hey everyone....... I was reading some of your girls questions and respones and i'm in the same situation of many of you and you girls seemed like you could help me out a lot. Im 15 and I think that im pregnant. I cant talk to my friends because I dont want them to look down upon me. Me and my boyfriend did a stupid thing that I regret. We had unprotected sex. He did pull out but I know that it doesn't always prevent pregnancy. I was supposed to get my period yesterday but it never came. I dont know what to do, im scared, confused, and most of all I dont want to tell my parents. I dont have a good realtionship with my mom I cant talk to her about anything, so I moved in with my dad and I can talk to him. Im scared and being a teen mom but im very scared about disappointing my dad. Plez help me. Crying or Very sad
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Suzy
replied on November 2nd, 2003
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Hi kay,

please don't worry yourself just yet, your period was only due 1 day ago. If you worry about it, this will just delay your period, then you will be even more worried. You could take a home pregnancy test if that would make you feel a little better. Now that you are sexually active, maybe it would be a good time to talk to your doctor about getting some birth control pills. Don't forget to use condoms to, you don't want to be catching any of those nasty std's that are rampant in our communities now days.

Good luck,

suzy
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smith8500
replied on November 2nd, 2003
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Sweetie,
calm down. Give it a few more days and then, if you don't get your peroid you need to tell someone, or get an at home test and check things out. And next time, if this is just a scare, please use protection.
Love,
chanda
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prettychicky99
replied on November 2nd, 2003
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Hey Its Ok
Hello
im 19 I ve had 2 kids already and trust me its not fun telling your parents .. Dont worry they will sorta be happy and sorta be mad but in the end they forgive you and give you and the baby all the love and support youll need


hayley
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youngmomtobe
replied on November 2nd, 2003
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Hey sweetie,
well I didnt tell my parents until I was almost 3 months yah....My mom called me a doing it tramp and a bunch of other stuff....She is trying to make me give my baby up for adoption......Im 17 and my boyfriend is 20....If you tell your friends and you really think they are going to down on you then they arent really your friends....You need to calm down b/c if you stress your period will miss altogether or be really late...Its only been a day calm down and it about 4 more days if its still late take a test in the morning when your hgc level (hormone in pregnant woman) is high if its negative take another one a week later if its still negative you could still be pregnant and that when you would have to go to a doctor...You could go to planned parenthood or any family practice center in your community without your parents having to know I really think you should tell your boyfriend he needs to know that way you can at least tell someone and have some kind of support!!! If you need anything else dont hesitate to pm me!! Good luck! Keep us posted!!Much love and god bless!!!

Jen
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Suzy
replied on November 3rd, 2003
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Jen, hayley, chanda, you are all such wonderful and caring people. Your responses are so supportive, and it's so comforting to know there are people like you guys left in the world. Sometimes when we have problems, all we need is to get some feedback from others who have been or are going through the same thing. Just to know your not alone really means something to someone who feels like they are drowning in problems by themselves. You are all great.

Regards,

suzy
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insurancegirl
replied on November 3rd, 2003
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