Please Help I Think Im Infertile!!! :( Posted: 02-17-05 19:02pm
I no this will sound realy sick and sad or
whatever but it gets me really deprest!
Bout 2 year my boy friend cheated on me
wiv sum silly tart an shes all diseased up
but I dint no he slept wiv her untill he
told me a year later wen we broke up!!!
Anyway I went off my head! But I went to
doctors and I wa told I had chlamydia. I
got it sorted an all that but I still had
the discharge but I jus left it coz I
thote it was normal...(dont ask!!) anyway
im with my new boy friend now, been with
him for bout 8 month but im not on the
pill or dont use any contraception...Im
doing this becasue I think im
infertile.Ive never fallen pregnant and
all them times ive had un-protected sex..?
I keep gettin bad pains in my ovaries and
it makes me really deprest! Im never
going to be able to have chilren am i???
I adore babies an ive alwys dreamt the day
I wud fall pregnant, but thats not gon
appen is it????!!!
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redsugar
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 140
Posted: 02-17-05 19:05pm
Unless you aren't actually trying to get
pregnant then I wouldn't worry. I wasn't
on bc for a year and half and had
unprotected sex w/ my boyfriend all the
time and never got pregnant until now.
So I wouldn't worry too much about it.
If you are trying to get pregnant you
could by one of those ovulating detectors
they advertise to make sure you are having
sex when u are ovulating.
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-17-05 19:06pm
You would have to go to a fertility
specialist to find out for sure. At the
least a trip to your gyno. Just b/c
you've never gotten preg, doesn't mean
you're infertile. There were many years
that I could/should have gotten preg, and
I didn't thank the.Lord. But now I have
two babies. I would say more than likely
you're fine, and the time will come for
your babies.
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niks
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Oswesty
Posted: 02-22-05 09:26am
Hey hun ime glad you finished wi him. I
was on the injection to prevent pregnancy
and I came of it after about 4 months I
did not like wat it was doing to my system
my periods were so messes up I would not
come on for ages and when I did it could
last up to 2 and a half weeks and be
really heavy, I thought I was infertile,
but it turns out that I am not it worked
out about 7 months before I fell pregnant
and it was not planned. I would not just
have unprotective sex because you think
you cant have children because you more
than likey that you can. I would book an
appointment at the doctors it could turn
out that it is not you it could be your
partner. It could be a number of things
just dont get your self worked up chuck
its better to find out from your doctor.
I know its a hard thing to do but least it
will put your mind at rest keep smilin :d
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Grumpy Bear 85
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005 Posts: 95 Location: NY
Posted: 02-22-05 10:31am
Im the same way I thank god I didn't get
preg. I was raped repeadily when I was 16
by a friend of the family and there was no
reason I shouldn't have gotten preg, he
never used pretection. Then I was
depressed by that when I 17-18 I slept
around and never used any form of
protection. I thank god I never got a
disease or preg. Im happily married now
and we got preg!
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unknowngirl504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Dec 2004 Posts: 51 Location: New Orleans
Yikes!! Posted: 02-22-05 11:21am
Does your boyfriend now know you have
chlymiddia?!?!?!??!?!?!?! Cuz uhhh...I
think it would be a good time to break the
bad news to him...Can't that kill a
person. I think it's either chlymiddia or
syphillius. Eek..Lol
unknown
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lil_blaze2004
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Re: Yikes!! Posted: 02-22-05 11:28am
unknowngirl504
wrote:
does your boyfriend now know
you have chlymiddia?!?!?!??!?!?!?! Cuz
uhhh...I think it would be a good time to
break the bad news to him...Can't that
kill a person. I think it's either
chlymiddia or syphillius. Eek..Lol
unknown
it's syphilis.
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unknowngirl504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Dec 2004 Posts: 51 Location: New Orleans
Posted: 02-22-05 13:32pm
I knew it was one of em. I wasn't sure of
which on though. Reguardless...I hope he
knows about her situation and itsn't too
upset when he finds out.
