I Need Some Comfort Urgently Posted: 02-16-05 20:40pm
I know that ihave not been on here ina
while because my pregnancy had me up and
down but I did miss the forum however here
is a little update I am 26 weeks along
andi carrying a girl I had to go in for a
level two ultrasound twice but they say
eveerythingis ok but this is what I need
comfort about yesterday my fiance lost his
job and he was the sole provider in this
house and he is very distraught over the
whole situation and I cant seem to stop
myself from crying because he has another
job lined up in texas and he says that he
is going to leave me in florida until he
can catch himself and then he will come
back however he will be gone for seven
months and only home once a month to check
on me and the baby but I am really scared
because this is my first baby and I dont
know if I can do it alone
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Posted: 02-16-05 20:59pm
Im on strike until they let lilblaze and
the others back on sorry
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lilmsnick
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2004 Posts: 30 Location: Miami
Posted: 02-16-05 21:01pm
I hope that hurry up and put them backon
because there are people on here that need
someone to talk to and I feel a person can
say what they eant I mean if it is pg then
block the beating forum and the polls in
the questions just my opinion
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-17-05 07:15am
I don't know what to say honey. It will
be hard, but you just have to be thankful
that your man is willing to do whatever he
has to do to take care of his family.
Millions of women do this on their own.
You can find support in your area. I am
a part of a couple playgroups where we get
together with our kids once or twice a
month and babysit for each other and just
support each other. You could find women
at your church. Just look for other moms
(at your job, in your neighborhood) and
reach out to them. I'm sure you can find
some ladies to help you get through this
time. Take care.
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lilmsnick
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2004 Posts: 30 Location: Miami
Posted: 02-17-05 19:54pm
I would like to thank youfor that
information we went out today and had a
great time for the first time so who knows
thing are looking up for us but I
willlkeep you posted
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MissChicopea
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 21 Location: Allston, MA
Posted: 02-17-05 21:18pm
What line of work is your dh in? Would it
be possible for him to look into jobs
closer to home either before he leaves or
while he is there. That way he can get
home asap.
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lilmsnick
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2004 Posts: 30 Location: Miami
Posted: 02-18-05 09:34am
He works construction he was a foreman
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 02-19-05 04:39am
Pregnancy is a verry hard thing to do
alone you need that emotional support
however if its any guidence at all know
that he would be bringing you emotional
support thru the idea that he is doing
everything he can to make ends meet and
provide for his new family! Find ways to
occupy yourself (my husband works alot-i.E
ive read almost every pregnancy book, and
I write all my friends random fun letters)
find way to stay healthy and happy and
communicate thru letters and phone
calls... Join a mommy walking club of
some sort.. Know it will be hard but not
impossible!
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lilly063
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Feb 2005 Posts: 2 Location: england
Dont Worry Posted: 02-19-05 07:23am
Try not to worry honey, first baby's are
always frightening. We never know what
to expect, can we afford them with a
partner away, your time will be taken up
with loving and cherishing your baby,
before you know it he will be back. All
a baby needs is love, things always seem
to work out in the end. Have faith and
think positive.
I can here you thinking "and what does she
know", I know believe me, just try and be
strong
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 02-19-05 08:51am
Hun i'm young and pregnant and almost
done.. But its like this whole time I was
scared and now that I look back on it, it
really wasnt as bad as I thought
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lilmsnick
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2004 Posts: 30 Location: Miami
Posted: 02-20-05 16:09pm
Hi I am sorry it took me so long to get
back but I really was not up to the
coputer lately but first I would like to
thank everyone for their words of
encouragement and I am trying to be as
strong as I possibly can
