Hey all, I think I suffer from this or something similar...
Let me explain my situation:
it takes me around forty seconds to 1 min 30 to actually reach climax when I am jerking off without trying to stop myself, I usually blow a substantial load and i'm quite confident coz I will continue to 'squirt' around 3-4 times on top of this my boner will stay up for ages, especially with a girl but I still climax too early. It should be noted i'm 17 years old, so yes youth and inexperiances could contribute to this, a person may say nerves but I aint nervous on my own?
Ontop of this, when i'm witha girl and spending time with foreplay, hugging, kissing etc I will have a boner and it will stay for along time and if it goes away...It comes back quickly however recently a few 'accidently' touches and I came, I wasn't very happy, we continued on and I maintained my boner, needless to say i'd like to last longer.
I wonder if other factors may contribute to this, when I was 15-16 I was suffering from depression and I didn't masturbate very often, it was maybe once every two months, so you can imagine it didn't take much to come before this I was able to come and I think this has lingered on.
Now, i've being reading up on some tips and would like others input, I don't have a girlfriend at the moment. So far the best i've managed is to last 11 minutes by stopping pumping when I came close to comming, or squeezing the base of my penis as if it was a cockring. My usual is about 7 minutes.
What I need to know is, will this help me increase my stamina, i'm trying to make a routine out of this to sort it out once and for all so I also need to know, if masturbating too much or too little will aid or weaken my intended results.
What i've started is masturbating every second day and I also go to the gym anyway, so I take a rest in between, so my timetable is:
monday-gym
tue- masturbate
wed- gym
thurs- masturbate
fri- gym
sat-masturbate
sun- gym
i try and do it in my room, relaxed on my bed when the house is quiet with a soft light on, as I come near I try to supress my penis and wait it out before starting again...
So once again, will this improve my time, are they're any other ways to improve?
What about gels to 'numb' the sensation.
Any ideas, thoughts or contributions?
Thanks!