Hey all, I think I suffer from this or
something similar...
Let me explain my situation:
it takes me around forty seconds to 1 min
30 to actually reach climax when I am
jerking off without trying to stop myself,
I usually blow a substantial load and i'm
quite confident coz I will continue to
'squirt' around 3-4 times on top of this
my boner will stay up for ages, especially
with a girl but I still climax too early.
It should be noted i'm 17 years old, so
yes youth and inexperiances could
contribute to this, a person may say
nerves but I aint nervous on my own?
Ontop of this, when i'm witha girl and
spending time with foreplay, hugging,
kissing etc I will have a boner and it
will stay for along time and if it goes
away...It comes back quickly however
recently a few 'accidently' touches and I
came, I wasn't very happy, we continued on
and I maintained my boner, needless to say
i'd like to last longer.
I wonder if other factors may contribute
to this, when I was 15-16 I was suffering
from depression and I didn't masturbate
very often, it was maybe once every two
months, so you can imagine it didn't take
much to come before this I was able to
come and I think this has lingered on.
Now, i've being reading up on some tips
and would like others input, I don't have
a girlfriend at the moment. So far the
best i've managed is to last 11 minutes by
stopping pumping when I came close to
comming, or squeezing the base of my penis
as if it was a cockring. My usual is
about 7 minutes.
What I need to know is, will this help me
increase my stamina, i'm trying to make a
routine out of this to sort it out once
and for all so I also need to know, if
masturbating too much or too little will
aid or weaken my intended results.
What i've started is masturbating every
second day and I also go to the gym
anyway, so I take a rest in between, so my
timetable is:
i try and do it in my room, relaxed on my
bed when the house is quiet with a soft
light on, as I come near I try to supress
my penis and wait it out before starting
again...
So once again, will this improve my time,
are they're any other ways to improve?
Any thoughts on this
anyone??????????????????????????
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-18-05 15:17pm
From what I hear (i am a girl so I can't
tell you from experience) masturbating and
making yourself wait to cum can increase
your stamina. However, when you go to
actually have intercourse it is different.
You are actually with a girl and have
her touching you etc. And will naturally
get more excited. But, trying to hold
out while masturbating should help. When
you get a girlfriend again (hopefully you
will find an understanding and patient
girl) you two can just work up to it.
The fact that you are concerned about this
shows a lot though and is great.
Although you maintain your erection after
you cum, keep in mind that to some women
it still means more if you can last. I
know after my man is done, even though I
am not I don't want to keep going. It
just isn't the same for me. But, that
isn't all people either.
Just keep working on it and good luck.
Sorry I couldn't help more. Do condoms
make it any easier for you to last longer?
I would think it may help, but I really
don't know!
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Thanks: 1
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Posted: 03-21-05 07:55am
Slow down there my friend, you're reading
way too much into this. If you want to
gain control of your orgasms then you will
need to exercise your pc muscle. With a
weak pc muscle you can ejaculate very
easily once aroused. Pretty simple
really, and the exercises are fun to do.
You will be able to last longer, be
harder, and maintain longer erections...
And it doesn't cost you a cent, just a few
minutes every day. Do a search on google
for pc exercises and if you have any
questions, feel free to ask.
(p.S. As hotasfrick mentioned, using a
condom or anything else to reduce
stimulation will help too.) also note
that ejaculating once on your own quickly
will help you last much longer the 2nd,
3rd, 4th, etc. Times around.
Be safe,
justin
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dan443
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2005 Posts: 15 Location: Lincolnshire
Posted: 03-22-05 11:37am
Hey dude, masturbating does work, I used
to masturbate when I was 13 got addicted
to it and didn't stop till I was 15 i'm
now 16, I was expecting my 1st time to be
really quick, but suprisingly I lasted 2
hours in bed and she loved it, and the
more we've done it, it has increased by
another hour.
