I would think that he would feel the vibrations of your orgasms....With as wet as a woman gets after orgasms plus the tone of her breathing, he should have gotten the message...

Any man that can look at a woman with spread legs, must know that she is in sexual heat....I would think this would do the job....

Caroline

I just got married December of 2008, I had my hystorectomy 5 years ago due to problems with cervical cancer. I have been fine all this time until the past year I suppose. Now my desire is almost non existent. It's horrible because it's a whole new change for me that I'm not ready for. I mean, I JUST GOT MARRIED!! I'm a mess inside and scared that I'm going to lose what I have waited my whole life for. I have been on Premerin but it only replaces the estrogen. It does not replace everything that a woman naturally produces. I went to my doctor today and they have come out with a new drug that contains all three of the harmones that a womans body should produce. I talked to my husband and I honestly don't think that he is willing to stay with me if this doesn't work. I don't know what to do. Any advice?

Yes, get an Estring Disc from your OB-GYN...Come to think of it I am going to do a Topic on this on my posting...It is inserted high in your vagina by you...You change it every three months...It feeds your inner womanly parts estroil or estrogen daily..This warms your high vagina and makes your G-spot hot and wanting...Makes you real juicy and wanting man...I swear sometimes it even makes my clit hot...I have had so many women who love it...Then bring on the hot woman in yourself...I just started a Topic under Relationships and Marriage...Honey, I will be covering a whole lot of intimate details about the aging woman...It is for all of us that I speak...The thread is:

http://ehealthforum.com/health/frustration s-and-life-of-an-aging-woman-t184563.html

I have only begun to post on it so give me time...Good luck and let me know if this does not work...It is just awesome...

Hugs,
Caroline

Check out the "HERS" foundation on hysterectomies. I did. It is exactly the horrors some of us were and are faced with including myself. I signed and told my doctor to take the olvaries while i was open and she left them in, now 6 months later another tumor. Had diarreha everyday after the first one. They only tell us no more babies or periods. They don't tell you all the risks and other things. Go to the website on the HERS foundation they even have videos and contact them and support. You can even talk to a counselor for free. I am going to have to call now. I am angry, changing hospitals and doctors this time. Talk about depressed and suicidal yes. I almost lost my child because I was so depressed, went for help and an over zelous therapist turned me in to CPS childrens protective services when I was asking for help. Go figure. Needless to say she got hers. But google your options and talk to HERS before ever going into making any kind of female life altering decisions on your body. I thought I was thorough. Wrong. I wish anyone and everyone the best and wellness to come.

I am sorry about your problems with your surgery...Unfortunately there are some stories of women that have a negative experience along with the ones who have had no problems...Good luck and I hope that everything turns out well...Take care...

Caroline