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Q: After 8 Months My B/f Admitts He's Cheated.....
asked by: problemchild on February 8th, 2005
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I thought we were perfect, I always told him the truth, and I beileved w/out a doubt he was honest with me too. But now that he went to jail, he claims he's seen the light, and that he's changing all his ways. He's told me about drugs he's done while we were dating and before he lied about it and so when we were on the phone, he said jessica go ahead and ask me anything you've ever thought I lied to you about. So the big one came up and I asked if he'd ever cheated on me. And there was a slight pause and then he said the first week we went out he had sex with a girl we both know and I hate, he said at first he didn't know he would love me so much. And after he'd already done it, that he couldnt take it back and he'd already fell in love with me, but at the time he said he thought I was just going to be another 1 week g/f. But we fell in love and I love him but should I stay w/ him even if he told me the truth?
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l2at24
replied on February 8th, 2005
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Of course you should stay with him. The first week??? Why would you leave for that? The reason I would leave is b/c he's in jail, depending on why he's there.
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l2at24
replied on February 8th, 2005
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Ooooh. Nevermind. I just read some of your other posts. Yeah, now would be a good time to leave him. Move on, and find a man who's going to treat you like gold.
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Sweetestgrl0717
replied on February 8th, 2005
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Yeah. I would leave him now better than later.. I think the fact that he cheated on you the first week isnt such a big deal but after what it seems like he has done.. You should move on.. And I think it would be easier since he is in jail because he wont come to your house and all that other stuff... Why is he in jail?
You should be with someone who can come to you when you need him.. Be there for you at all times.. Not be like on when I get out I will be there for you.. And I dont really know him or anything but a lot of guys who say they have changed.. Im sorry sweety they havent.. Thats my point of view...

Well good luck and keep me posted.. No one knows what is best for you only you!!! :lol:
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